7 habits of a highly effective teen
mission statement
A personal motto that states what your life is about -helps you write your goals
Seek first to understand, then to be understood
Listen to people sincerly
Put first things first
Prioritize and do the most important things first
Habit 3
Put first things first
Sharpen the saw
Renew yourself regularly
RBA
Representation of how you feel about your relationships
PBA
Representation of how you feel about yourself
S.M.A.R.T.
S-specific M-measuring A-action-oriented R-realistic T-timely
paradigm shift
See things from a different point of view
Habit 5
Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
Habit 7
Sharpen the saw
Habit 6
Synergize
Be Proactive
Take responsibility for your life
Paradigm
The way your see something;your point of view (perception)
Habit 4
Think Win-Win
W.I.S.E
W-willpower I-initiative S-stamina E-enthusiasm
No-can-do
Wait for something to happen
Synergize
Work together to achieve more
Can-do
You make it happen
PBA and RBA WITHDRAWLS
-cave into peer pressure -act arrogant
Reactive language
-i'll try -i have to -i can't -you ruined my day
Proactive language
-ill do it -i can do better than that -i choose to -there's gotta be a way
PBA and RBA DEPOSITS
-keep promises -be honest -random acts of kindness
5 steps of the refusal skill
-ask questions -name the problem -state the consequences -suggest the alternative -take off
Reactive people make choses based on what?
Based on impulse
Proactive people make choses based on what?
Based on values
Habit 1
Be Proactive
Habit 2
Begin with the end in mind
Begin with the end in mind
Define your mission and goals in life
Think Win-Win
Have an everyone-can-attitude
