Chapter 4 Quiz
The four phases of the sexual response, in order from beginning to end, are __________.
arousal, plateau, orgasm, and resolution
The first step in conflict resolution is to __________.
identify the problem or issues
Combining the use of various drugs and sex can produce many negative outcomes and can increase irrational decisions regarding sexual activity. Which of the following are likely outcomes associated with combining sex with drugs or alcohol?
increased likelihood of unprotected sex undesired sexual activity
During which phase of the female sexual response does the vagina expand and lengthen and the clitoris retract under its hood?
plateau
All of the following are key aspects of an intimate relationship EXCEPT __________. self-nurturance intimacy passion commitment
self-nurturance
Intimacy, passion, and commitment are components of __________.
the Triangular Theory of Love
The male reproductive structure that functions to provide sperm with the nutrients and other fluids that compose semen are __________.
the seminal vesicles
Factors such as respect, friendship, enjoyment of each other's company, and communication are all important in relationship success. From the list below identify features of a healthy relationship.
Both partners share in the decision about where to live. Partners are willing to discuss past sexual histories.
Despite our best efforts, conflict arises in any relationship. Whether the conflict is emotional, one that addresses differences in views of society, or simply an argument over where to go for dinner, there are constructive ways to work through conflict in relationships.
Use "I" messages to state the problem and avoid placing blame on others. Identify several solutions and don't evaluate them yet. Be honest as you narrow the number of solutions down to one that can be acceptable to all. Commit to/agree upon the solution to the conflict. Decide how to carry out the solution and whois responsible todo what and when. After time has passed, check on the solution and be sure it is working for both parties.
Communicating can be complicated sometimes, especially in relationships between men and women since men and women communicate in different ways. Being aware of these differences can help in correctly interpreting messages. Read the following scenarios and quotes and decide whether they are more reflective of men's, women's, or neither's communication style.
Women's Communication Style Using smiles and direct eye contact to establish rapport with the other party."I am so sorry that we are having trouble deciding how to spend our income tax refund."Reaching out and rubbing the other person's shoulder while speaking."Could you help me understand your viewpoint? I am having trouble grasping it." Men's Communication Style Standing with arms crossed and leaning backward while listening attentively."I don't really want to talk about how this 'feels' anymore; I just want to reach the decision."Giving a quick, friendly punch to the shoulder while making a point.Interrupting the other person in order to correct his or her statements during a lively conversation. Not Specific to Men or Women Approaching a conversation with a set agenda and not listening at all to the other person.Never engaging in a conversation without a third party being present.
Self-disclosure can involve some risk because:
You have to have enough self-confidence to share hopes, dreams, past experiences, and vulnerabilities with someone else at the right time and in the right place.
Which of the following is NOT an aspect of nonverbal communication? acknowledgement touch gestures body language facial expressions
acknowledgement
When partners agree that each may be sexually involved with others outside their relationship, this is defined as __________.
an open relationship
There are numerous ways to express sexuality. Meeting sexual needs may vary over time and throughout a lifetime. To achieve sexual satisfaction, the first step is to accept oneself as a sexual person with individual desires and preferences. The option for human sexual expression that includes avoidance or abstention from sexual activity with others is known as __________.
celibacy
Technology has revolutionized communication. While tools like Facebook and Twitter can bring people together, they may also be used to embarrass or hurt individuals. Which is not an example of using social media responsibly? refraining from posting pictures depicting partying and other compromising situations checking your partner's email and private message accounts several times per week ending a relationship in person, rather than through a text message discussing and agreeing on which photographs or activities to share on social media
checking your partner's email and private message accounts several times per week
Within the female reproductive system there are two major groups of anatomy. These include the external genitals and the internal organs. Which of the following is considered part of the external female sexual reproductive anatomy?
clitoris The external female genitals, known as the vulva, include the mons pubis, clitoris, urethral opening, labia majora, labia minora, and the vaginal opening.
Commitment in relationships may take many forms, including marriage, monogamy, serial monogamy, open relationships, cohabitation, and gay and lesbian partnerships. A relationship in which two legally single people with an intimate connection live together is known as __________.
cohabitation
The beginning of sexual identity occurs at __________.
conception
Sexual identity is determined by the interaction of genetic, physiological, environmental, and social factors. The sense or awareness of being male or female is known as a person's __________.
gender identity
Which example below represents a more typical male communication pattern?
gestures away from the body and leans back when listening
While self-disclosure can be an effective method of building intimacy with individuals, sharing personal information on social media can cause you to feel embarrassed, may hurt others, or could even cost you your job. Which of the following best represent appropriate and responsible use of online technology?
increasing your online security settings, untagging yourself in photos and videos you don't want others to see, and/or removing photos if possible not posting damaging comments about anyone online
Which example least reflects healthy sexuality?
keeping emotions and thoughts private
The onset of the first menstrual period is known as __________.
menarche
Premature ejaculation falls into which of the major categories of sexual dysfunction?
orgasmic disorder
A key ingredient to a stable relationship is trust. All of these are fundamental elements of trust EXCEPT __________. dependability faith power predictability
power
Intimate relationships can be defined in terms of behavioral interdependence, need fulfillment, emotional attachment, and emotional availability. According to Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love, intimacy and passion are components of which type of love?
romantic love
Developing individual potential through a balanced and realistic appreciation of one's own worth and abilities is defined as __________.
self-nurturance
Disorders of sexual desire, arousal, orgasm, pain, and performance are types of __________.
sexual dysfunction
The male reproductive structure that functions to provide sperm with the nutrients and other fluids that compose semen are __________.
the seminal vesicles In addition to the Cowper's glands and the seminal vesicles, the prostate gland also supplies fluids to the semen, including chemicals that help the sperm fertilize an ovum.
From the list below, identify good listening skills.
turning off the television, computer, or smart phone repeating what was said to ensure understanding smiling or nodding to acknowledge understanding the point the speaker is making
People differ in how they communicate, and you must be willing to accept differences and work at keeping communications open and fluid. Self-disclosure includes sharing information about the past that is relevant to the other person's understanding of your current reactions. Which are appropriate actions for self-disclosure?
understanding your own feelings, beliefs, thoughts, and concerns choosing a private place for sharing sensitive information you feel your partner should know
What male structure carries the sperm and semen out of the penis?
urethra
Sexual dysfunctions are quite common and include four types: desire disorders, arousal disorders, orgasmic disorders, and pain disorders. All of these types can be treated successfully. The involuntary contraction of vaginal muscles that makes penile insertion painful or impossible is known as __________.
vaginismus
Which is a good strategy for conflict resolution?
working together to narrow down a list of possible solutions
Choose the statement that best describes a healthy relationship.
Discussing sexual history may be uncomfortable and lead to disagreements, but it is a hallmark of a healthy relationship.
Which qualify as good tips for coping with a failed relationship?
Do volunteer work that you enjoy. Seek out trusted friends or professional help if needed.
Which of the following is one way to become a better listener?
Pay attention and control the urge to interrupt the speaker.
The pea-sized nodule of tissue at the top of the labia minora that is central to sexual arousal in women is the __________.
clitoris
Pain or discomfort in the lower abdomen that many women experience just before or after menstruation is known as __________.
dysmenorrhea
The ability to give to and receive from others emotionally without fear of being hurt or rejected is called __________.
emotional availability
The comma-shaped structure on the back of each testis, where sperm mature, is the __________.
epididymis
A sense or awareness of being male or female is one's __________.
gender identity
The condition in which a person is born with reproductive anatomy that doesn't clearly exhibit female or male sex characteristics is __________.
intersex