Title IX Mandatory Training

Tyrone and James have been seeing one another but have not had a very sexual relationship. James says, "Hey, I really want to do ______." Tyrone says, "I don't know." James says, "Look, how long do you expect me to wait? We've been seeing each other for months. Can't we at least try?" James's behavior represents: a. A healthy relationship b. Pressuring c. Coercion d. Force

b. Pressuring

A healthy relationship is one where: a. Both people are interested in making the other person happy b. Each person respects the other person's wants and needs c. Both people share mutual consent for everything they do d. Both work together to find solutions that work for each person e. All of the above

e. All of the above

Consent is not possible if: a. A person is incapacitated by alcohol, other drugs or medication b. A person is underage c. A person is being physically restrained d. A person is mentally impaired e. A person is unconscious f. All of the above g. None of the above

f. All of the above

Mekha and Paul have been seeing each other for about a year, and both have always been enthusiastic about intercourse with one another. At a party where they were drinking, Mekha said she couldn't wait to have sex with Paul that night. When they return to Paul's room, Mekha slurs, "I ned go buthroom." When she stumbles out of the bathroom, she starts to fall but Paul catches her and helps her onto the bed. Paul still wants to have intercourse and he should: a. Initiate sex b. Not engage Mekha sexually c. Start a dialogue

b. Not engage Mekha sexually

Charlotte and Chen have been dating a long time and Chen really wants Charlotte to meet his parents. Charlotte wants Chen to try some different sexual things and says, "Look, if you don't do these other things, I'm going to tell your parents what we have been doing. You know they won't approve." Charlotte's behavior represents: a. A healthy relationship b. Pressuring c. Coercion d. Force

c. Coercion

The spectrum of a healthy relationship to an unhealthy relationship includes the following four stages: a. Healthy, Somewhat Unhealthy, Unhealthy, Very Unhealthy b. Happy, Unsure, Unhappy, Fighting c. Healthy, Pressure, Coercion, Force d. Mutually respectful, Partially Respectful, Partially Conflicting, Conflicting

c. Healthy, Pressure, Coercion, Force

Jasmine and Mary met at a party and decided to go to Jasmine's room. They begin making out on Jasmine's bed, and Jasmine begins to remove Mary's clothes. Mary doesn't show a positive or a negative response. Jasmine should: a. Keep going b. Stop altogether c. Pause and start a dialogue

c. Pause and start a dialogue

The best way to define "coercion" in a relationship is: a. Using insults or arguing b. Negotiating so that each person is happy c. Being physically violent d. Using a threat on top of other pressuring tactics

d. Using a threat on top of other pressuring tactics

Ways to understand if a partner is consenting to sexual activity is ... a. Body language b. Verbal communication c. The absence of a negative response d. The knowledge that you've done it together before e. The fact that you are in a committed relationship f. The fact that they consented to start doing the activity earlier g. A & B h. B & C

g. A & B

Which of the following is a way to ask about engaging in a sexual activity without pressuring? a. "Hey, don't you think it is time we ..." b. "How can you say you're really into me if you don't want me to be happy"? c. "What do you think about trying ..." d. "There are a lot of other people who would do this with me if you don't want to." e. "I'd really be into ..." f. All of the above g. A & E h. C & E

h. C & E

Which of the following represent enthusiastic consent to engage in a sexual activity? Mark all that apply a. "Oh yeah. I'm totally into that." b. "Uh, I guess so." c. "I'd kinda rather ..." d. "Yes!" e. "Maybe some other time." f. "I've never really tried that." g. All of the above h. None of the above

a. "Oh yeah. I'm totally into that." d. "Yes!"

Ben and Karina are in a relationship. Ben says, "Hey, I really want to do ______." Karina responds, "I know. I'm just not sure I do yet." Ben says, "Ok. I don't want you to do anything you're not comfortable with. Is there something you'd be into that would be moving closer to ______?" Karina respond, "Actually, yeah, I think I'd be into at least doing this." This conversation represents: a. A healthy relationship b. Pressuring c. Coercion d. Force

a. A healthy relationship

Enthusiastic consent can make sexual activity more enjoyable because: a. Each person will be fully invested in whatever you are doing b. It is the same thing as "safe sex" c. The law requires it d. All of the above e. None of the above

a. Each person will be fully invested in whatever you are doing