Chapter 11 Attraction and Intimacy

long deep

Companionate love is ____________ lasting and _____________.

passion

Robert Sternberg's components of love are intimacy, _____________________ and commitment..

two factor

The _________-___________ theory of emotion holds that physical arousal accentuates romantic responses.

disillusionment

The cooling of intense romantic love can trigger a period of ________________________.

physical

According to the "matching phenomenon" Jacqueline is more likely to get involved with someone who has the same level of ____________________________ attractiveness.

good

Attachment research shows that adults who had secure attachments as babies are likely to have _____________, stable, trusting relationships as adults.

ostracism

Being excluded by others is a form of __________________________.

passionate

Couples who are absorbed in one another; have int each other's eyes longingly and would be devastated to lose their relationship; are most likely experiencing ____________________ love.

self disclosure

Kelly complains that Larry never shares anything truly personal about himself. She thinks he shows a lack of ____________ _______________.

reward attraction

The theory that we like people who reward is or with whom we associates positive events is referred to as the ______________ theory of ______________.

companionate

The type of love we feel for people that is labeled as deep affectionate attachment is __________________ love.

perceived inequity

Tim feels he is investing more time and emotions into the relationship he has with Jane than she is investing. This would describe __________________ ___________________ .

mere exposure

When a person eventually likes someone or something they have encountered repeatedly is an example of _______________ ____________________ effect.

sarcasm

When it comes to passionate love; prolonged eye-gazing, nodding one's head and slot of smiling are all indicators of passionate love, but _______________________ is NOT an indicator of it.

need

When people want to be with other people in long term, close relationships, this is referred to as having a ___________ to belong.

physical attractiveness

When we see a physically attractive person, we think that they gave other good qualities. This is an example of ___________________ ____________________ stereotype.

b

Whom are you most likely to marry? A)A person who lives far away. B)A person who lives, works, or studies within walking distance. C)A person very different from you. D)A person who is less successful than you.

ingratiates

With a Knowing glance, Linda's grandmother motioned to Linda from across the table at a fancy restaurant, "Look at how that waiter ___________________ himself in front of those people at the table for six, just to receive a big tip."

proximity

_______________________ is considered to be the strongest predictors of whether or not people form friendships.

complementarity

________________________ is used to describe the supposed effect of two people who are "opposites" of each other, being attracted to each other and "completing" each other.