psychology Questions
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Would you rather be ugly and marry a good looking person or be good looking and marry an ugly person?
Would you rather be ugly and marry a good looking person or be good looking and marry an ugly person?
Would you rather eat healthily or exercise regularly?
Would you rather eat healthily or exercise regularly?
Would you rather get bad advice or give bad advice?
Would you rather get bad advice or give bad advice?
Would you rather know the future or be able to read people's minds?
Would you rather know the future or be able to read people's minds?
Would you rather never play or play but always lose?
Would you rather never play or play but always lose?
Would you rather work really hard at an interesting job or slack off at a boring job?
Would you rather work really hard at an interesting job or slack off at a boring job?
Would you want to bring up your children with any particular religious persuasion?
Would you want to bring up your children with any particular religious persuasion?
iPhone or Android?
iPhone or Android?
♦Discover how the person you're talking to spends their free time and open up a topic they are greatly interested in.♦
♦Discover how the person you're talking to spends their free time and open up a topic they are greatly interested in.♦
♦If you find out the other person is really into their food, then you'll get a lot of mileage from asking Foodie questions♦
♦If you find out the other person is really into their food, then you'll get a lot of mileage from asking Foodie questions♦
What are you most afraid to lose?
What are you most afraid to lose?
What are your plans after graduation?
What are your plans after graduation?
What can't you live without?
What can't you live without?
Can you drive?
Can you drive?
Coming soon: Cafes Bars Galleries Museums Gyms
Coming soon: Cafes Bars Galleries Museums Gyms
Comment on or ask questions about your surroundings:
Comment on or ask questions about your surroundings:
Competency Questions: Conversation Starters
Competency Questions: Conversation Starters
David has such a great personality. I wonder why.
David has such a great personality. I wonder why.
Did you catch the game?
Did you catch the game?
Did you try the canapés?
Did you try the canapés?
Do you believe in God?
Do you believe in God?
Do you believe in Santa?
Do you believe in Santa?
Do you believe in an after-life?
Do you believe in an after-life?
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Do you believe we have souls?
Do you believe we have souls?
Do you cook?
Do you cook?
Do you enjoy it?
Do you enjoy it?
Do you expect most people you meet to be friendly?
Do you expect most people you meet to be friendly?
Do you find your work challenging?
Do you find your work challenging?
Do you get much time off?
Do you get much time off?
Do you go to the theatre?
Do you go to the theatre?
Do you have a favourite restaurant?
Do you have a favourite restaurant?
Do you have any brothers or sisters?
Do you have any brothers or sisters?
Do you have any pets?
Do you have any pets?
Do you have anything fun lined up for the weekend?
Do you have anything fun lined up for the weekend?
Do you imagine ever having children?
Do you imagine ever having children?
Do you know if there's cafe / restaurant / bar in here? (Or can preface with: 'Have you seen...', 'Do you know a good...', 'Do you know the best...'
Do you know if there's cafe / restaurant / bar in here? (Or can preface with: 'Have you seen...', 'Do you know a good...', 'Do you know the best...'
Do you know what your your name means?
Do you know what your your name means?
Do you know which platform the train is coming in on?
Do you know which platform the train is coming in on?
Do you like (destination)?
Do you like (destination)?
Do you like going to music festivals / museums / galleries?
Do you like going to music festivals / museums / galleries?
Do you like kids?
Do you like kids?
Do you like to travel?
Do you like to travel?
Do you like video games?
Do you like video games?
Do you prefer the city or the countryside?
Do you prefer the city or the countryside?
Does it get stressful?
Does it get stressful?
What classes are you taking?
What classes are you taking?
What colour are your eyes?
What colour are your eyes?
What countries have you been to?
What countries have you been to?
What department do you work in?
What department do you work in?
What did you do this past weekend?
What did you do this past weekend?
What did you get up to on the weekend?
What did you get up to on the weekend?
What did you on the weekend?
What did you on the weekend?
What did you want to grow up to be when you were younger?
What did you want to grow up to be when you were younger?
What do partners most often want to change about you?
What do partners most often want to change about you?
What do you do for a living?
What do you do for a living?
What do you do for fun?
What do you do for fun?
What do you do on weekends?
What do you do on weekends?
What do you for fun?
What do you for fun?
What do you have planned for the weekend?
What do you have planned for the weekend?
What do you like about being in a relationship?
What do you like about being in a relationship?
What do you like cooking?
What do you like cooking?
What do you like most about your job?
What do you like most about your job?
What do you like to do in your spare time?
What do you like to do in your spare time?
What do you like to do to relax?
What do you like to do to relax?
What do you look for in a friend?
What do you look for in a friend?
What do you look for in a partner?
What do you look for in a partner?
What do you value most in a person?
What do you value most in a person?
What does this remind you of..?
What does this remind you of..?
What happened with that [insert subject] you were talking about last time we met?
What happened with that [insert subject] you were talking about last time we met?
What hours do you work?
What hours do you work?
What is one thing you miss about being a kid?
What is one thing you miss about being a kid?
What is something you have never done but would like to do?
What is something you have never done but would like to do?
What is the best piece of advice you've received?
What is the best piece of advice you've received?
What is the best/worst job you ever had?
What is the best/worst job you ever had?
What is the craziest thing you've ever done?
What is the craziest thing you've ever done?
What is the first thing you do when you wake up in the morning?
What is the first thing you do when you wake up in the morning?
What is the first thing you do when you wake up?
What is the first thing you do when you wake up?
What is the first thing you notice about people you meet?
What is the first thing you notice about people you meet?
What is the last thing you do before you go to sleep each night?
What is the last thing you do before you go to sleep each night?
What is the last thing you do before you go to sleep?
What is the last thing you do before you go to sleep?
What is your favorite movie of all time?
What is your favorite movie of all time?
What is your favorite movie?
What is your favorite movie?
What is your favorite song?
What is your favorite song?
What is your favorite sports team?
What is your favorite sports team?
What is your favourite meal of the day?
What is your favourite meal of the day?
What is your first childhood memory?
What is your first childhood memory?
What is your most embarrassing moment?
What is your most embarrassing moment?
What kind of music do you listen to?
What kind of music do you listen to?
What kind of things do you do to relax?
What kind of things do you do to relax?
What one experience has most changed your outlook on life?
What one experience has most changed your outlook on life?
What scares you?
What scares you?
What three things most inspire you and why?
What three things most inspire you and why?
What three words best describe you?
What three words best describe you?
What time did you get here?
What time did you get here?
What time did you get to here?
What time did you get to here?
What type of kid were you?
What type of kid were you?
What type of music do you like to listen to?
What type of music do you like to listen to?
What was the worst job that you've ever had?
What was the worst job that you've ever had?
What was your best/worst holiday ever? Why?
What was your best/worst holiday ever? Why?
What was your favourite childrens book?
What was your favourite childrens book?
What was your favourite/least favourite subject?
What was your favourite/least favourite subject?
What was your worst vacation ever?
What was your worst vacation ever?
What would be your dream job?
What would be your dream job?
What would you do if [insert VIP / well-known person] showed up at your front door one afternoon?
What would you do if [insert VIP / well-known person] showed up at your front door one afternoon?
What would you do if [insert VIP / well-known person] showed up right now?
What would you do if [insert VIP / well-known person] showed up right now?
What would you recommend in (destination)?
What would you recommend in (destination)?
What's exciting in your life at the moment?
What's exciting in your life at the moment?
What's exciting you most in your life at the moment?
What's exciting you most in your life at the moment?
What's in(destination) ?
What's in(destination) ?
What's on your music playlist at the moment?
What's on your music playlist at the moment?
What's one thing you've always wanted to do but never got around to?
What's one thing you've always wanted to do but never got around to?
What's something your friends don't even know about you?
What's something your friends don't even know about you?
What's the best decision you ever made? How did it turn out?
What's the best decision you ever made? How did it turn out?
What's the dumbest thing you've ever done?
What's the dumbest thing you've ever done?
What's the first thing you notice about a person?
What's the first thing you notice about a person?
What's the naughtiest thing you've ever done?
What's the naughtiest thing you've ever done?
What's the one defining moment of your life so far?
What's the one defining moment of your life so far?
What's the one defining moment of your life so far? Why?
What's the one defining moment of your life so far? Why?
What's turned out to be the best decision you ever made?
What's turned out to be the best decision you ever made?
What's your dream destination and why?
What's your dream destination and why?
What's your favorite day of the week?
What's your favorite day of the week?
What's your favourite book you ever read?
What's your favourite book you ever read?
What's your favourite food?
What's your favourite food?
What's your favourite kind of holiday?
What's your favourite kind of holiday?
What's your favourite time of the day and why?
What's your favourite time of the day and why?
What's your favourite way to spend your time off?
What's your favourite way to spend your time off?
What's your middle name?
What's your middle name?
What's your signature dish?
What's your signature dish?
What's your tipple of choice?
What's your tipple of choice?
When you meet someone for the first time, do you have a checklist or are you a chemistry kind of girl/guy?
When you meet someone for the first time, do you have a checklist or are you a chemistry kind of girl/guy?
How's [insert common acquaintance] been?
How's [insert common acquaintance] been?
How's your new [insert venture or project] coming along?
How's your new [insert venture or project] coming along?
When you were younger, what did you want to grow up to be?
When you were younger, what did you want to grow up to be?
Where are you headed?
Where are you headed?
Where did you grow up?
Where did you grow up?
Where do you see yourself in five years?
Where do you see yourself in five years?
Where do you work?
Where do you work?
Where were you born?
Where were you born?
Where were you brought up?
Where were you brought up?
Where would you like to go?
Where would you like to go?
Where's [ insert common acquaintance] today?
Where's [ insert common acquaintance] today?
Where's the last place you went on vacation?
Where's the last place you went on vacation?
Where abouts do you live?
Whereabouts do you live?
Whereabouts do you live?
Whereabouts do you live?
Who has had the most positive influence on you and why?
Who has had the most positive influence on you and why?
Who is your favorite actor?
Who is your favorite actor?
Why are you going to (destination)?
Why are you going to (destination)?
Why did your parents give you the name?
Why did your parents give you the name?
Work & Study Questions: Conversation Starters
Work & Study Questions: Conversation Starters
Would You Rather Questions: Conversation Starters
Would You Rather Questions: Conversation Starters
Would rather wait until you have saved up enough to buy something you want or borrow money to get it straight away?
Would rather wait until you have saved up enough to buy something you want or borrow money to get it straight away?
Would you rather always get first dibs or the last laugh?
Would you rather always get first dibs or the last laugh?
Would you rather always have to say everything on your mind or never speak again?
Would you rather always have to say everything on your mind or never speak again?
Would you rather always lose or never play?
Would you rather always lose or never play?
Would you rather be a complete unknown or well-known and hated?
Would you rather be a complete unknown or well-known and hated?
Would you rather be able to fly or become invisible?
Would you rather be able to fly or become invisible?
Would you rather be able to hear any conversation or take back anything you say?
Would you rather be able to hear any conversation or take back anything you say?
Would you rather be able to move faster than anyone or to stop time?
Would you rather be able to move faster than anyone or to stop time?
Would you rather be deaf, dumb or blind?
Would you rather be deaf, dumb or blind?
Would you rather be dumped or dump someone else?
Would you rather be dumped or dump someone else?
Would you rather be in your pajamas all day or in a suit all day?
Would you rather be in your pajamas all day or in a suit all day?
Would you rather be rich and stupid or poor and a genius?
Would you rather be rich and stupid or poor and a genius?
Would you rather be rich and ugly or poor and good looking?
Would you rather be rich and ugly or poor and good looking?
Would you rather be rich or famous?
Would you rather be rich or famous?
Would you rather be the most popular kid in school or the smartest kid in school?
Would you rather be the most popular kid in school or the smartest kid in school?
Would you rather be the worst player on the best team or the best player on the worst team?
Would you rather be the worst player on the best team or the best player on the worst team?
If you could only achieve one thing in life what would it be?
If you could only achieve one thing in life what would it be?
If you could wish one obstacle out of your way between you and what you want, which would it be?
If you could wish one obstacle out of your way between you and what you want, which would it be?
If you had a million dollars, what would you do with it?
If you had a million dollars, what would you do with it?
If you had three wishes, what would they be?
If you had three wishes, what would they be?
If you knew that you only had a year left to live, what would you do?
If you knew that you only had a year left to live, what would you do?
If you won the lottery and became a multi-millionaire, would you still be working/studying?
If you won the lottery and became a multi-millionaire, would you still be working/studying?
If you wrote a book, what would it be about?
If you wrote a book, what would it be about?
In your dream house, what one room must you have?
In your dream house, what one room must you have?
In your opinion, what makes a good first impression?
In your opinion, what makes a good first impression?
Is that the new Samsung Galaxy blah blah?
Is that the new Samsung Galaxy blah blah?
Is the train running on time?
Is the train running on time?
Is there any one thing you've wanted to tell me, but haven't?
Is there any one thing you've wanted to tell me, but haven't?
Would you rather be much shorter than average or much taller than average?
Would you rather be much shorter than average or much taller than average?
Would you rather be poor and in love or rich and alone?
Would you rather be poor and in love or rich and alone?
Would you rather be poor and work at a job you love or be rich and work at a job you hate?
Would you rather be poor and work at a job you love or be rich and work at a job you hate?
So when we were dating, was there a particular moment when you realised you wanted us to be together?
So when we were dating, was there a particular moment when you realised you wanted us to be together?
Any plans for the weekend?
Any plans for the weekend?
Any vacations planned for the near future?
Any vacations planned for the near future?
Are there any foods you won't eat?
Are there any foods you won't eat?
Are you going to the wedding?
Are you going to the wedding?
Are you handy with a power saw?
Are you handy with a power saw?
Are you happier single or in a relationship? Why?
Are you happier single or in a relationship? Why?
Are you having a busy day?
Are you having a busy day?
At a party or social event
At a party or social event
At school
At school
At the train station, bus station, or airport
At the train station, bus station, or airport
At work
At work
Background sounds / music Decor The people around you Food, drink, menus Amenities Service The situation (i.e. the training running late) Ask directions History of the area Any landmarks, art, or spectacles Anything playing on a screen Anything you overhear
Background sounds / music Decor The people around you Food, drink, menus Amenities Service The situation (i.e. the training running late) Ask directions History of the area Any landmarks, art, or spectacles Anything playing on a screen Anything you overhear
Been to any concerts / gigs recently?
Been to any concerts / gigs recently?
Beliefs Questions: Conversation Starters
Beliefs Questions: Conversation Starters
Can you cook?
Can you cook?
Entertainment Questions: Conversation Starters
Entertainment Questions: Conversation Starters
First Date Questions
First Date Questions
Foodie Questions: Conversation Starters
Foodie Questions: Conversation Starters
General Questions: Conversation Starters
General Questions: Conversation Starters
Good weekend?
Good weekend?
Got any fun hobbies?
Got any fun hobbies?
Have you ever been fired?
Have you ever been fired?
Have you ever been in love?
Have you ever been in love?
Have you ever cheated on anyone?
Have you ever cheated on anyone?
Have you ever done anything a little bit evil?
Have you ever done anything a little bit evil?
Have you ever done something really embarassing?
Have you ever done something really embarassing?
Have you got any hobbies?
Have you got any hobbies?
Have you heard about [insert news / current event]?
Have you heard about [insert news / current event]?
Holiday & Travel Questions: Conversation Starters
Holiday & Travel Questions: Conversation Starters
How are the hours?
How are the hours?
How did you hear about this place?
How did you hear about this place?
How do you know [the host]?
How do you know [the host]?
How do you know the host?
How do you know the host?
How have you been?
How have you been?
How long have you been working here?
How long have you been working here?
How long have you been working there?
How long have you been working there?
How many languages do you speak?
How many languages do you speak?
How many people do you think are here?
How many people do you think are here?
How often do you go to (destination)?
How often do you go to (destination)?
How was your weekend?
How was your weekend?
I wonder what your DJ name would be?
I wonder what your DJ name would be?
Icebreakers
Icebreakers
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live? Why?
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live? Why?
If you could meet anyone in history, who would it be?
If you could meet anyone in history, who would it be?
Life Questions: Conversation Starters
Life Questions: Conversation Starters
Long day?
Long day?
Many venues
Many venues
Needs, Wants & Values: Conversation Starters
Needs, Wants & Values: Conversation Starters
Of all the dates we've been on, what was your favourite?
Of all the dates we've been on, what was your favourite?
Of all the holidays / breaks we've been on, what was your favourite?
Of all the holidays / breaks we've been on, what was your favourite?
So where are you going Christmas this year?
So where are you going Christmas this year?
So who do you know here?
So who do you know here?
Spare Time Questions: Conversation Starters
Spare Time Questions: Conversation Starters
Would you rather be really hairy or completely bald?
Would you rather be really hairy or completely bald?
Would you rather be rich and in bad health or poor and healthy?
Would you rather be rich and in bad health or poor and healthy?
Personal Questions
Personal Questions
Plans for the weekend?
Plans for the weekend?
Questions For Couples: Conversation Starters
Questions For Couples: Conversation Starters
Questions For Friends, Family & In-laws: Conversation Starters
Questions For Friends, Family & In-laws: Conversation Starters
Read any good books lately?
Read any good books lately?
Relationship Questions: Conversation Starters
Relationship Questions: Conversation Starters
Remember that time we..?
Remember that time we..?
Seen any good movies lately?
Seen any good movies lately?
Situational Conversation Starters
Situational Conversation Starters
So how did you end up here?
So how did you end up here?
So how do you chill out?
So how do you chill out?
So what have you been doing with your time off?
So what have you been doing with your time off?
So what's changed in your life since last we met?
So what's changed in your life since last we met?
So what's happening with the [insert a situation mentioned last time you met]?
So what's happening with the [insert a situation mentioned last time you met]?
So what's your idea of a perfect day?
So what's your idea of a perfect day?
What are you majoring in?
What are you majoring in?
Tell me three things you love?
Tell me three things you love?
Tell me three things you really don't like?
Tell me three things you really don't like?
The train's always late
The train's always late
Use your senses! There are always things you can comment on or inquire about among your surroundings, including:
Use your senses! There are always things you can comment on or inquire about among your surroundings, including:
What are you guys working on?
What are you guys working on?
♦Many people are afraid to ask relationship questions because they don't want to scare the other person off, or give the wrong impression. This is probably a matter for personal judgement and experimentation. However, before you get too emotionally invested in a relationship, you might want to ask some of the following qualifying questions to make sure they're right for you♦
♦Many people are afraid to ask relationship questions because they don't want to scare the other person off, or give the wrong impression. This is probably a matter for personal judgement and experimentation. However, before you get too emotionally invested in a relationship, you might want to ask some of the following qualifying questions to make sure they're right for you♦
♦What matters most to the person you're talking to? What motivates them? What can't they do without? The questions below can help you find that out, and following up with a 'Why?' question will often elicit the values underlying their responses.♦
♦What matters most to the person you're talking to? What motivates them? What can't they do without? The questions below can help you find that out, and following up with a 'Why?' question will often elicit the values underlying their responses.♦