We are not really strangers FULL GAME
Level 2: Connection
A what brought you the most unexpected joy recently?
Level 2: Connection (WILDCARD)
Admit a dating pet peeve (30 seconds). Compare.
Level 3: Reflection
Admit something
Level 3: Reflection
How do our personalities compliment each other?
Level 2: Connection
Is there a feeling you miss?
Level 2: Connection (WILDCARD)
Press shuffle on your music library. Explain the first song that comes up.
Level 2: Connection (WILDCARD)
Set an intention for this week. Stick to it.
Level 3: Perception (WILDCARD)
Share a meaningful hug with your partner. (1 minute).
Level 2: Connection (WILDCARD)
Share your screen time. Both players
*WILDCARD*
THINK OF YOUR FAVOURITE CHILDHOOD TV SHOW OF ALL TIME, ON THE COUNT OF THREE SAY IT OUTLOUD (BOTH PLAYERS)
Level 2: Connection
Think of someone that you admire. What made you think about them specifically?
*WILDCARD*
WRITE A MESSAGE TO EACH OTHER AND GIVE IT TO EACH OTHER. OPEN IT ONCE YOU HAVE LEFT
Level 2: Connection
What is one thing you can do to be a better person?
Level 3: Perception
What is one thing you think I can do that would dramatically improve my life?
Level 2: Connection
What is your most toxic trait you can admit to?
Level 2: Connection
What is your mother's name and the most valuable thing she has taught you thus far?
Level 2: Connection
What leaves you the most energized, what leaves you the most drained?
Level 2: Connection
What lesson should you have learned by now?
Level 1: Perception
What was your first impression of me?
Level 2: Connection
What's the most unexplainable thing that has ever happened to you?
Level 2: Connection
What's the most unexplainable thing that's ever happened to you?
Level 2: Connection
What's the worst pain you've ever been in that wasn't physical?
Level 2: Connection
When was the last time someone has made you feel special on your birthday?
Level 2: Connection
When was the last time you felt lucky to be you?
Level 2: Connection
When's the last time you surprised yourself?
Level 2: Connection
Which one of your parent's personality traits do you want to keep/ let go of?
Level 2: Connection
Which one of your parents' personality traits do you want to keep/ let go of? Explain.
Level 3: Perception
Who do I remind you of?
Level 1: Perception
Who do you think is my favorite artist?
Level 3: Perception
You hurt me, but I thank you for _____.
Level 1: Perception
- Do you think I've ever been in love?
Level 2: Connection (WILDCARD)
Admit something.
Level 2: Connection
Admit something: what could you have done better in your previous relationship(s)?
Level 3: Perception
Are any of your insecurities hurting someone else by accident?
Level 2: Connection
Are you lying to yourself about anything?
Level 2: Connection
Are you missing anyone right now? Do you think they are missing you?
Level 2: Connection (REMINDER)
Be more interested in understanding others than being understood.
Level 3: Perception (WILDCARD)
Both players write down your number one goal for the next month. Exchange.
*WILDCARD*
CREATE YOUR OWN QUESTION. ANYTHING. MAKE IT COUNT.
*WILDCARD*
DRAW A PICTURE TOGETHER (30 SECS)
*WILDCARD*
DRAW YOUR CURRENT FEELINGS THEN COMPARE.
Level 3: Reflection
Dare your partner to do something out of their comfort zone next week.
Level 3: Perception
Dear people who raised me, thank you for ______.
Level 3: Perception
Dear younger self: ______.
Level 2: Connection
Describe your perfect date.
Level 3: Reflection
Do you believe everyone has a calling? If so, do you think I've found mine?
Level 2: Connection (WILDCARD)
Do you need advice on anything in your life right now? Permission to vent. (Both players).
Level 2: Connection
Do you think I fall in love easily? Why or a why not?
Level 1: Perception
Do you think I have a sibling? Older or younger?
Level 1: Perception
Do you think I like Taco Bell?
Level 1: Perception
Do you think I like hot cheetos?
Level 1: Perception
Do you think I like to read?
Level 1: Perception
Do you think I was popular in high school?
Level 1: Perception
Do you think I'm in Greek Life?
Level 1: Perception
Do you think I've ever had my heart broken?
Level 3: Perception
Do you think the image you have of yourself matches the image people see you as?
Level 2: Connection
Draw a picture together. (1 minute)
Level 2: Connection
Finish the sentence: Dating is _____. (Both players)
*WILDCARD*
HOW CAN I ADD 1% MORE HAPPINESS IN YOUR LIFE?
Level 2: Connection
Has a quote ever changed your worldview?
Level 2: Connection
Have I ever challenged your worldview? How so?
Level 2: Connection
Have you changed your mind about anything recently?
Level 2: Connection
How are you, really?
Level 3: Perception
How can I add 1% more happiness to your life?
Level 3: Perception
How can I be there for you?
Level 2: Connection
How did you get over your first love?
Level 3: Perception
How do our personalities compliment each other?
Level 3: Reflection
How does one earn your vulnerability?
Level 2: Connection
How old do you feel, emotionally?
Level 3: Perception
How would you describe me to a stranger?
Level 3: Reflection
How would you describe me to a stranger?
Level 2: Connection
How would you describe your ex in three words? How would they describe you?
Level 2: Connection
How's your heart today, really?
Level 2: Connection
I feel loved when______.
Level 2: Connection
I know i'm in love when ______.
Level 2: Connection
If "myspace" were still a thing, what would my profile song be?
Level 3: Reflection
If we were a band what would be our name?
Level 2: Connection
If you could instill one personality trait in your child, what would it be?
Level 3: Perception
If you made me a playlist, what 3 songs would be on it? Explain.
Level 3: Perception
In a word, how would you describe our conversation?
Level 3: Reflection
In one word, describe how you feel right now.
Level 3: Perception
Is there anyone who has changed your life but doesn't know it?
*WILDCARD*
LET GO OF YOUR ATTACHMENT TO THE OUTCOME wildcard character - BOTH PLAYERS SHARE SOMETHING YOU'RE MOST GRATEFUL FOR IN THIS CURRENT MOMENT.
*WILDCARD*
LOOK INTO EACH OTHER'S EYES FOR 30 SECONDS. WHAT DID YOU NOTICE?
Level 2: Connection (REMINDER)
Let go of your attachment to the outcome.
Level 1: Perception
On a scale of 1 - 10, how messy do you think my car is?
*WILDCARD*
PRESS SHUFFLE ON YOUR MUSIC LIBRARY. EXPLAIN THE FIRST SONG THAT COMES UP!
Level 2: Connection (WILDCARD)
Reveal your most played song, at the moment. Explain.
*WILDCARD*
SHARE A FAVOURITE MEMORY OF YOURS. COMPARE. (BOTH)
*WILDCARD*
SHOW THE FIRST PHOTO IN YOUR CAMERA ROLL. EXPLAIN.
*WILDCARD*
SING YOUR FAVOURITE SONG LYRICS YOU CAN THINK OF OFF THE TOP OF YOUR HEAD. (BOTH)
*WILDCARD*
STARING CONTEST. FIRST-PERSON TO BLINK MUST REVEAL A PERSONAL PROBLEM AND ASK THE OTHER FOR ADVICE ON HOW THEY MIGHT HANDLE IT.
Level 2: Connection
Self love is ______.
Level 2: Connection (WILDCARD)
Sing your favourite song lyrics off the top of your head. Both Players.
Level 2: Connection (WILDCARD)
Staring contest! First to smile or look away has to show an embarrassing video, at least 3 years old.
*WILDCARD*
TAKE A SELFIE TOGETHER
*WILDCARD*
TELL THE OTHER PERSON TO CLOSE THEIR EYES AND TO KEEP THEM CLOSED. (WAIT 10 SECONDS. DESCRIBE TO THEM IN DETAIL YOUR FAVOURITE MEMORY OF THEM/ TWO OF YOU)
*WILDCARD*
TELL THE OTHER PERSON TO CLOSE THEIR EYES AND TO KEEP THEM CLOSED. (WAIT 15 SECONDS AND KISS THEM)
*WILDCARD*
THINK OF SOMETHING THAT YOU DISLIKE THAT MOST PEOPLE DON'T. ON THE COUNT OF 3 SAY IT OUTLOUD.
Level 2: Connection (WILDCARD)
Think of a movie that always makes you cry. On the count of 3, say your answers out loud. (Both players).
Level 2: Connection
Think of someone you admire. Why did this person come to mind?
*WILDCARD*
WRITE A MESSAGE TO EACH OTHER AND GIVE IT TO EACH OTHER. OPEN IT ONCE YOU HAVE LEFT.
Level 2: Connection
Wha have you been taking for granted lately?
Level 2: Connection
What about yourself is hard to admit?
Level 3: Reflection
What answer of mine made you light up?
Level 2: Connection
What are you better at than most people you know?
Level 2: Connection
What are you currently working through that others don't see?
Level 2: Connection
What are you feeling a lot of lately?
Level 2: Connection
What are you most excited for today? Big or small.
Level 2: Connection
What are you not giving enough time to, currently?
Level 2: Connection
What are you overthinking right now?
Level 2: Connection
What are you passionate about?
Level 2: Connection
What are you still trying to prove to yourself?
Level 2: Connection
What belief about yourself no longer serves you?
Level 3: Reflection
What can I help you with?
Level 3: Perception
What can I teach you?
Level 3: Perception
What can we create together?
Level 3: Reflection
What can we create together?
Level 2: Connection
What can you be kinder towards yourself today?
Level 2: Connection
What can you create during this time with exactly what you have? Big or small.
Level 2: Connection
What dating advice would you give to your younger self?
Level 2: Connection
What dating advice would you give yourself?
Level 2: Connection
What did the people who raised you teach you about love?
Level 2: Connection
What did this week/month/year leave you with?
Level 2: Connection
What did your last relationship teach you about yourself?
Level 3: Reflection
What do I need to hear right now?
Level 3: Perception
What do you admire most about me?
Level 3: Reflection
What do you admire most about me?
Level 2: Connection
What do you need most help with currently?
Level 2: Connection
What do you need right now but aren't communicating?
Level 2: Connection
What do you need right now, more than anything?
Level 2: Connection
What do you need to forgive yourself for?
Level 2: Connection
What do you need to hear right now?
Level 3: Reflection
What do you recommend I should let go of?
Level 3: Reflection
What do you think I should know about myself that perhaps I'm unaware of?
Level 1: Perception
What do you think I'd splurge on?
Level 1: Perception
What do you think I'm going to do in the future (work/employment)?
Level 3: Reflection
What do you think do I fear the most?
Level 3: Reflection
What do you think is one thing I could do that would drastically improve my life?
Level 3: Reflection
What do you think my defining characteristic is?
Level 1: Perception
What do you think my favorite Starbucks drink is?
Level 2: Connection
What do you think my main love language is?
Level 1: Perception
What do you think my major is?
Level 3: Perception
What do you think my strength is?
Level 3: Reflection
What do you think my superpower is?
Level 3: Reflection
What do you think my weakness is?
Level 3: Reflection
What do you think our most important similarities are?
Level 2: Connection
What do you wish you could spend more time doing?
Level 2: Connection
What has been your happiest memory this past year?
Level 2: Connection
What has being single/ in a relationship taught you about yourself, if anything?
Level 3: Reflection
What has this conversation taught you about yourself?
Level 2: Connection
What have you let go of this year that's made the most positive change?
Level 2: Connection
What have you tolerated from people in the past that you no longer have space for?
Level 3: Reflection
What is a lesson you will take away from our conversation?
Level 3: Perception
What is something you've learned about yourself this week?
Level 2: Connection
What is the hardest truth you had to face this year?
Level 2: Connection
What is the last thing you lied to your mom about?
Level 2: Connection
What is the nicest thing you can remember doing for a friend? Permission to brag.
Level 2: Connection
What is your favorite adjective with which to be described?
Level 2: Connection (WILDCARD)
What is your favourite memory we share together? Both players. Compare.
Level 2: Connection
What is your favourite part about yourself that isn't physical?
Level 2: Connection
What is your heart telling you?
Level 2: Connection
What is your least favorite personality trait in a person?
Level 2: Connection
What is your most defining characteristic?
Level 2: Connection
What lesson took you the longest to unlearn?
Level 2: Connection
What movie do you wish you could watch again for the first time, why? Explain.
Level 2: Connection
What non-domestic animal describes you and why?
Level 3: Perception
What part of my personality wasn't showcased when you first met me?
Level 2: Connection
What part of your life works? What part of your life hurts?
Level 3: Reflection
What parts of yourself do you see in me?
Level 2: Connection
What question are you trying to answer in your life right now?
Level 3: Perception
What question were you most afraid to answer, and what answer were you most afraid to hear?
Level 3: Reflection
What question were you most afraid to answer?
Level 2: Connection
What takes a friend into a best friend?
Level 2: Connection
What title would you give this chapter in your life?
Level 2: Connection
What type of social situation makes you feel most awkward?
Level 2: Connection
What was the lesson from your most recent painful experience?
Level 2: Connection
What was your all-time-low, and what has it taught you the most?
Level 2: Connection
What was your biggest turning point in your dating life?
Level 3: Reflection
What would be the perfect gift for me?
Level 3: Reflection
What would make you feel closer to me?
Level 2: Connection
What would you feel best to fully accept in this moment? Explain.
Level 3: Perception
What would you like to learn from me?
Level 2: Connection
What would you never want to change about yourself?
Level 2: Connection
What would you tell your younger self and what have you learned from this lesson?
Level 2: Connection
What would your younger self not believe about your life today?
Level 3: Perception
What would your younger self not believe about your life today?
Level 2: Connection
What's a feeling you're uncomfortable sharing with me?
Level 2: Connection
What's a phrase that you say that you wish you would stop saying?
Level 2: Connection
What's been keeping you sane lately?
Level 2: Connection
What's the best lesson an ex has ever taught you?
Level 2: Connection
What's the biggest mistake you've made?
Level 2: Connection
What's the hardest lesson you've learned in love?
Level 2: Connection
What's the hardest part about dating you?
Level 2: Connection
What's the last thing you lied about? -
Level 3: Perception
What's the most attractive quality about me that isn't physical?
Level 3: Reflection
What's the most attractive quality about me that isn't physical?
Level 2: Connection
What's the most embarrassing thing that's ever happened to you?
Level 2: Connection
What's the most fun you've ever had? Explain.
Level 2: Connection
What's the most important thing you're currently putting off?
Level 2: Connection
What's the most pain you've ever been in that wasn't physical?
Level 2: Connection
What's your father's name and one thing about him?
Level 2: Connection
What's your fathers name and one thing about him?
Level 2: Connection
What's your favorite song lyric that you can think of off the top of your head? -
Level 2: Connection
When asked, "how are you", how often do you answer truthfully?
Level 2: Connection
When do you feel most optimistic? Explain.
Level 2: Connection
When is the last time you cried?
Level 2: Connection
When is the last time you felt lucky to be you?
Level 3: Reflection
When this game is over, what will be something you will remember about me?
Level 3: Perception
When this game is over, what will you remember about me?
Level 3: Perception
When was the last time you surprised yourself?
Level 2: Connection
When was the last time you were able to use your pain to help someone else?
Level 2: Connection
When was the last's time you felt most yourself?
Level 3: Reflection
Where am I most qualified to give advice about?
Level 1: Perception
Where do you think I grew up?
Level 2: Connection
Who in your life can you be most vulnerable with?
Level 2: Connection
Who in your life deserves the biggest thank you? Let them know if you can.
Level 3: Perception
Why do you think we met?
Level 3: Reflection
Why do you think we met?
Level 3: Perception (WILDCARD)
Write a motivational reminder to your partner. Fold and exchange. Open when needed. (Both players).
Level 2: Connection (WILDCARD)
Write a note to your younger selves. After 1 minute, open and compare.
Level 2: Connection (WILDCARD)
Write down the three most important qualities in a best friend. (1 minute). Compare.
Level 2: Connection (WILDCARD)
Write down the three most important things to you in a relationship (30 seconds). Compare.
Level 3: Perception
Based off what you've learned about me, do you have any netflix recommendations?
Level 3: Reflection
Based on what you know about me, do you have a Netflix recommendation?
Level 3: Reflection
Based on what you learned about me what would you recommend I read?
Level 3: Perception
Based on what you learned about me, does my social media accurately reflect who I am? Why or why not?
*WILDCARD*
Based on what you learned re-write each other's dating app bios. (30 sec)
Level 3: Reflection
Based on what you've learned about me, does my social media portray me accurately?
Level 2: Connection (WILDCARD)
Create your own question.
Level 2: Connection
How would you describe the feeling of being in love in one word?
Level 2: Connection
What about me is hardest for you to understand?
Level 1: Perception
What about me is most strange or unfamiliar?
Level 3: Reflection
What about me is the hardest for you to understand?
Level 3: Reflection
What about me surprised you?
Level 3: Perception
What parts of yourself do you see in me?
