7 Habits of Highly Effective People

ignoring

level of listening in which one makes no effort to listen

pretend listening

level of listening in which one makes the other believe or gives the appearance that they are listening

Exercise integrity in the moment of choice

what is the 5th step that you must do to plan for the coming week?

win-win

a mindset that seeks mutual benefit.

Marie von Ebner-Eschenbach

"As far as your self-control goes, as far goes your freedom" is stated by who?

Olga Rosmanith

"Circumstances has no power over you. Your inner weather is always and forever at your command" is stated by who?

Carol Adriene

"Each day has its own purpose and fits into the great plan of our lives" is stated by who?

Stephen R. Covey

"Effective people have genuine Quadrant I crises and emergencies that need their immediate attention, but the quantity is relatively small. They keep P and PC in balance by that specialize in the important, but not urgent, activities of Quadrant II" is stated by who?

Leo Tolstoy

"Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself" is stated by who?

Stephen R. Covey

"Everyone's life is so singular; so unique. Who will listen to understand that uniqueness?" is stated by who?

Michael P. Nichols

"Genuine listening means suspending memory, desire, and judgment—and for a few moments, at least, existing for the other person" is stated by who?

William Ellery Channing

"My Symphony is to live content with small means, to seek elegance rather than luxury, and refinement rather than fashion; to be worthy, not respectable, and wealthy, not rich; To study hard, think quietly, talk gently, act frankly; To listen to stars and birds, to babes and sages, with open heart; To bear all cheerfully, to do all bravely, await occasions, hurry never; to let the spiritual, unbidden and unconscious, Grow up through the uncommon. This is to be my symphony." Whose mission statement is mentioned above?

Bruce Barton

"Sometimes when I consider what tremendous consequences come from little things... I am tempted to think there are no little things" is stated by who?

Chaim Potok

"We need to listen to one another if we are to make it through this age of apocalypse and avoid the chaos of the crowd" is stated by who?

Sonya Friedman

"You have control over three things—what you think, what you say, and how you behave. To make a change in your life, you must recognize that these gifts are the most powerful tools you possess in shaping the form of your life" is stated by who?

Mission Statement

- This statement expresses your personal sense of purpose and meaning in life. - It can come in the form of a document, poem, collage, or song. - It acts as governing constitution by which you evaluate your decisions and choose your behavior.

Put first things first

- helps you identify and eliminate unimportant activities that rob you of your time. - allows you to focus on what matters most in your personal and professional lives.

Synergy

- it is when two or more people produce more together than the sum of what they could produce separately. - the third alternative - occurs by valuing differences, cooperating creatively, and brainstorming options and alternatives.

Quadrant IV

- the things that are not urgent and as at the same time are not important belong to this quadrant - listed here are the things that you should ELIMINATE

Quadrant II

- the things that are not urgent but are important belong to this quadrant - listed here are the things that you should PLAN for

Quadrant III

- the things that are urgent but are not important belong to this quadrant - listed here are the things that you should DELEGATE

Quadrant I

- the urgent and important activities belong to this quadrant - listed here are the things that you should DO

haves

- these are the results you want to achieve - may be tangible or intangible possessions

do

- this addresses the contributions and accomplishments that lie to your purpose and values. - answers the questions, "What am I about?"

integrity, maturity, and abundance mentality

A win-win person possesses three-character traits: _________________, _________________, and _________________.

integrity

Exercising ___________ is a moment-by-moment choice. At every moment we choose whether or not we will actively work toward what we want to be, do, and have.

vision, mission, and purpose

Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind teaches you how to live with __________, __________, and __________.

integrity

People of _________________ are true to their feelings, values, and commitments.

integrity

People with __________ make and keep meaningful promises and commitments to themselves and others that are in line with their mission statement.

Abundance Mentality

People with an _________________ believe that there is plenty for everyone.

Mature

_________________ people express their ideas and feelings with courage and with consideration for the ideas and feelings of others.

renewal

a gift you give yourself, not an imposition.

Emotional Bank Account

a metaphor for the amount of trust that exists in your relationships

independence

achieved by mastering habits 1, 2, and 3.

Interdependence

achieved by mastering habits 4, 5, and 6.

The Habit of Vision

also known as "Begin with the end in mind"

The Habit of Integrity and Execution

also known as the habit of putting first things first

The Habit of Mutual Understanding

also known as the habit of seeking to understand first before being understood

The Habit of Renewal

also known as the habit of sharpening the saw

The Habit of Mutual Benefit

also known as the habit of thinking win-win

The Habit of Creative Cooperation

also known as the habit to synergize

important

an activity that you find valuable and that contributes to your mission, values, and high priority goals.

urgent

an activity that you or others feel requires immediate attention.

Public victory

begins when you cooperate so everyone wins

Monthly planning

it gives you a greater view of what's important, but too many things change during the month to plan effectively.

Daily planning

it only provides you with a limited view of what's important—it encourages a Quadrant I focus.

emphatic listening

level of listening in which one listens and responds with both the heart and mind to understand the speaker's words, intent, and feelings

selective listening

level of listening in which one only hears the part of the conversation that interests them

attentive listening

level of listening in which one pays attention and focuses on what the speaker says and compares it to their own experience

Be Proactive

means having the freedom to choose and increase your influence

The Habit of Choice

other term for the habit of being proactive

Circle of Concern

the things that may concern you but you have LITTLE to NO influence over belong in this category of events and circumstances

Circle of Influence

the things you CAN influence through choices or simply the things you CAN control belong in this category of events and circumstances

Reactive people

these people focus on their Circle of Concern, losing sight of those things they can truly influence.

Proactive people

these people focus on what they can influence and don't worry about what they can't

Reactive people

these people respond to stimuli without thinking or controlling their reactions. They react based on their moods in the heat of the moment.

Proactive people

these people stop long enough—sometimes just half a second—to allow themselves to choose a response based on their values and principles.

Weekly planning

this helps you identify your most significant tasks, prioritize and schedule them, and achieve your highest priorities

The Maturity Continuum

this shows of your growth from dependence to independence to interdependence

Be Proactive

what is the 1st habit of highly effective people?

Connect to Mission

what is the 1st step that you must do to plan for the coming week?

Begin with the end in mind

what is the 2nd habit of highly effective people?

Review Roles

what is the 2nd step that you must do to plan for the coming week?

Put first things first

what is the 3rd habit of highly effective people?

Identify Goals

what is the 3rd step that you must do to plan for the coming week?

Think win-win

what is the 4th habit of highly effective people?

Organize Weekly

what is the 4th step that you must do to plan for the coming week?

Seek first to understand, then to be understood

what is the 5th habit of highly effective people?

Synergize

what is the 6th habit of highly effective people?

Evaluate

what is the 6th step that you must do to plan for the coming week?

Sharpen the saw

what is the 7th habit of highly effective people?

Private victory

when one has mastered habits 1, 2, and 3, they achieve this type of victory.

public victory

when one has mastered habits 4, 5, and 6, they achieve this type of victory.

Stephen R. Covey

who is the author of the book entitled "7 Habits of Highly Effective People"?