Eternal Family Exam 3

How did Elder Richard G. Scott define the law of chastity?

"Any intentional contact with the sacred, private parts of another's body, with or without clothing is a sin and is forbidden by God." "It is also a sin to intentionally stimulate these emotions within our own bodies"

As discussed in class, Elder Kofford gave three suggestions regarding what we can do to help nonmember parents or relatives, or those who cannot qualify for a temple recommend, feel that they are part of the marriage? Name them.

"First, be very understanding of their feelings, and, as much as possible, help them comprehend what's going to occur and why they can't be with you." "Second, make them feel as much a part of what's going on that day as you can. Invite them to come to the temple, and arrange for someone to be with them while you are in the temple. They might like to go through the visitors' center, if available." Third, you may want to arrange with your bishop to hold a meeting for those who don't have temple recommends. This meeting could include prayer, music, and remarks by a priesthood holder. It may include the exchanging of rings, but it should not include a ceremony or the exchange of vows.

Name the four covenants, noted by President Faust, we make in the temple.

"In the temples of the Lord, we make covenants of obedience, sacrifice, chastity and consecration."

. It is wrong to take a life, including one's own. However, a person who commits suicide may not be responsible for his or her acts. What are some of the things the Lord will take into consideration in judging them?

"Obviously, we do not know the full circumstances surrounding every suicide. Only the Lord knows all the details, and he it is who will judge our actions here on earth. When he does judge us, I feel he will take all things into consideration: our genetic and chemical makeup, our mental state, our intellectual capacity, the teachings we have received, the traditions of our fathers, our health, and so forth." M Russell Ballard

Identify some of the ways the Spirit speaks to the heart.

"The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long-suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness and temperance" (Galatians 5:22-23). "Put your trust in that Spirit which leadeth to do good—yea, to do justly, to walk humbly, and to judge righteously" (D&C 11:12).

What did Elder Oaks say is the difference between what true religion teaches and what the pseudoreligions of our day teach?

"Today there are a host of pseudoreligions that teach self-indulgence, taking, and demanding service. True religion teaches us to give and to serve others."

What is the principle of stewardship?

"When one purports to receive revelation for another person outside his or her stewardship you can be sure such revelations are not from the Lord and you are not bound by it. I have heard of cases where a young man told a young woman she should marry him because he had received a revelation that she was to be his eternal companion. If this is a true revelation, it will be confirmed directly to the woman. In the meantime, she is under no obligation to heed it. She should seek her own guidance and make up her own mind. A man can receive revelation to guide his own actions, but he cannot receive revelation to direct hers. She is outside his stewardship." Dallin H Oaks

Under what three conditions might an abortion be approved of the Lord?

*Pregnancy is the result of rape or incest. *A competent physician determines that the life or health of the mother is in serious jeopardy. *A competent physician determines that the fetus has severe defects that will not allow the baby to survive beyond birth.

Elder Holland described three lessons we can learn from the example of Moses parting the Red Sea. What were they?

*Remember the real thing; to an honest seeker of revelation, doubts are resolved when remembering help needed and gotten before *go forward in the gospel and do not fear *God will provide the means and power to achieve a purpose he gives to us

Identify some of the ways the Spirit speaks to the mind.

*Sudden strokes of ideas—pure intelligence *Logical, makes sense *Enlightenment *Remembrance *Discernment *Optimistic, positive thinking

What is the Light of Christ?

*The Light of Christ, which is given to every person who lives on this earth, is an influence and not a personage. *It is our conscience. It helps us discern between good and evil and to repent. *It leads us to truth, moves us to seek the Gift of the Holy Ghost, and helps us do good and become good.

When, did Elder Holland say, revelation almost always comes?

*in response to a question, usually an urgent question

In striking a balance between agency and inspiration, what did Elder Bruce R. McConkie say is expected of us in terms of our agency?

*to do everything in our power and seek an answer from the Lord, a confirming seal that we've reached the right conclusion (sometimes we even get more)

Elder McConkie related how Oliver Cowdery was counseled to "ask in faith." What does it mean to ask in faith?

*with an honest heart, believing you shall receive

What percentage of couples in the world have difficulty conceiving a child?

15%

At what point does the heart begin to beat and blood begin to flow in a fetus?

22 days after conception, the heart begins to beat 26 days after conception, circulation of blood begins

How many abortions, did President Nelson say, occur worldwide each year?

40 million

Describe the four parts of the revelatory process discussed in class from section 9 of the Doctrine and Covenants.

8 But, behold, I say unto you, that you must study it out in your mind; then you must ask me if it be right, and if it is right I will cause that your bosom shall burn within you; therefore, you shall feel that it is right.

What is the spirit of revelation?

A power beyond our own that comes from god to us and through us

An endowment is a gift. What three gifts do we receive with the endowment?

A power from God Knowledge blessings

How did Elder Holland define a sacrament?

A very special kind of symbol Unity with mortals and deity

What is artificial insemination and what is the Church's position on it?

Artificial insemination is the injection of semen into the vagina or uterus without sexual intercourse. *The Church strongly discourages artificial insemination using semen from anyone but the husband. However, this is a personal matter that ultimately must be left to the judgment of the husband and wife. Responsibility for the decision rests solely upon them. *Artificial insemination of single sisters is not approved. Single sisters who deliberately refuse to follow the counsel of Church leaders in this matter are subject to Church discipline.

Elder Holland said if you want capability, safety, and security in dating and romance, you must

Be a true disciple of Jesus Christ

In class, we discussed four safeguards we can use to protect ourselves against the temptation of pornography, now and in the future. Name them.

Be in tune with the spiritual promptings Have a clear, specific purpose whenever you use an electronic device Be disciplined-- take control of your devices, don't let them control you Use the "buddy" system-- someone you can trust and be honest and accountable to

From the testimony of John: What is one of the most significant evidences that someone has been born of God and knows God? What is the greatest manifestation of Heavenly Father's love for us? What is the relationship between love and fear? Why do we love God?

Because the God sent his only begotten Son into the world There is no fear in love, perfect love casteth out fear We love because he loved us When a man loves his brother, it is evidence he loves God

Alma taught his son, Shiblon, that if we want to be filled with love, what must we do?

Bridle all of your passions

What three keys did the Apostle Paul teach about building marital intimacy in 1 Corinthians 7?

Charity or benevolence (benevolence is the sum of moral excellence) "You're the presider, take presidence of that!" Trust "wife and husband power over each others' bodies"

What do the words dedicate and consecrate mean?

Dedicate means to set apart from the world Consecrate means devoted to holy purposes

What is sexual fragmentation?

Develop a relationship on someone based on one leg? "Sexual fragmentation is a counterfeit of intimacy. It is particularly harmful because it gives powerful physiological rewards which can persuade us to overlook the serious deficits in the overall relationship. Two people may marry for physical gratification and then discover that the illusion of oneness collapses under the weight of intellectual, emotional, social, and spiritual incompatibilities."

What is the Church's position on cremation?

Does not normally encourage cremation The family should decide if the body should be cremated, considering laws Where possible deceased member should be cremated with temple service Funeral service may be held

Wendy Watson noted two types of activities that will help a couple prepare for intimacy. Name them.

Draw spouses hearts one to another Invites spirit

What is the principle of bias?

Each of us is influenced strongly by our own desires and preferences. Oaks

What is the position of the Church on exchanging rings in the temple? On exchanging vows, outside the temple, after a temple marriage?

Exchanging rings is not part of the temple marriage ceremony. However, couples may exchange rings after the ceremony in the room where the ceremony takes place

True or False: Guilt is a tool of the adversary.

FALSE

True or False: Laura Brotherson suggested that praying for help in improving sexual intimacy in marriage is inappropriate.

FALSE

True or False: President Nelson said, for Latter-day Saints, the sin of abortion cannot be forgiven.

FALSE

True or False: The decisions of when to have children and how many children to have and whether or not to use birth control are to be made between the husband and wife alone.

FALSE

True or False: When possible, Elder Kofford said, it is recommended that you receive your endowment the same day you are sealed?

False: A few days before the sealing

5. Using Mormon's teachings in Moroni 7, complete the following: Charity, the pure love of Christ is a ____________ bestowed upon _____________ who also __________ for charity with all the energy of their hearts.

Gift, true followers of Jesus Christ, ask?

What four things did Laura Brotherson say you need to know to be sufficiently educated sexually?

Human sexual response Mechanics and techniques Knowledge about your body and sexual functioning Knowledge about your spouses body and sexual functioning General knowledge differences between men and women to generate understanding for needs

In seeking revelation to confirm a decision we have made, what did Elder McConkie say we will feel if our conclusion is right? What will follow if our conclusion is wrong?

I say unto you, that you must study it out in your mind; then you must ask me if it be right, and if it is right I will cause that your bosom shall burn within you; therefore, you shall feel that it is right. But if it be not right you shall have no such feelings, but you shall have a stupor of thought that shall cause you to forget the thing which is wrong; therefore, you cannot write that which is sacred save it be given you from me. [D&C 9:8-9]

What is in vitro fertilization and what is the Church's position on it?

In vitro fertilization consists of collecting (retrieving) mature eggs from the ovaries and fertilizing them, in a lab, with sperm. The Church strongly discourages in vitro fertilization using semen from anyone but the husband or an egg from anyone but the wife. However, this is a personal matter that ultimately must be left to the judgment of the husband and wife. Responsibility for the decision rests solely upon them

To have our confidence wax strong in the presence of God and to have the Holy Ghost as our constant companion, what does D&C 121 teach we must do?

Let bowels be full of charity towards all med and to the household of faith Let virtue garnish thoughts unceasingly

What are the two great commandments, described in Matthew 22?

Love the Lord they God with all thy heart, and with all they soul and mind Love thy neighbour as thyself

What is the Church's position on prolonging life?

Members should not feel obligated to extend life by unreasonable means Competent decisions come after medical advice and divine guidance Dying inevitably should be seen as a blessing and part of eternity

Where and when was the endowment revealed to Joseph Smith?

Nauvoo May 4 1842

What did Elder Bednar say will determine, in large measure, our happiness in mortality and our destiny in eternity?

Obedience to the law of chastity

What is the Church's position on organ donation and reception?

Organ donation is a selfless act that is the decision of the individual or the family of the deceased Organ reception should be considered after medical counsel and confirmation through prayer

When the people went to hear King Benjamin's address at the temple, what was significant about the positioning of their tents?

Our temple experiences with be altered by if our lives are symbolically facing towards the temple or not

President Nelson said: "When a life is created by sinful behavior, the best way to begin personal repentance is to ______________," and to consider the wonderful alternative of _______________.

Preserve the life of that child Adoption

Name four reasons why sexual relations were ordained of God in marriage.

Procreation Expressing love Strengthening emotional ties Strengthening spiritual ties

What is euthanasia and what is the Church's position on it?

Putting to death someone with an incurable disease or condition or assisting a person is committing suicide They violate the commandments of God

. Elder Bednar said: "Defiling the body is an act of ______________ and a denial of _________________."

Rebellion Our true identity as sons and daughters of God

What is the primary purpose of temples?

Receiving the ordinances necessary for exaltation in the celestial kingdom-- for both the living and the dead.

What did Wendy Watson say intimacy of any kind involves?

Reciprocal feelings of trust and emotional closeness and an open communication of thoughts and feelings

Name the five love languages suggested by Gary Chapman

Service Quality Time Physical Affection Gifts Words of Affirmation

To achieve intimacy, what three things do men say they most want or need?

Sexual fulfillment Recreational companionship - someone they can have fun with An attractive spouse (visual)

In D&C 63:16, the Savior noted what three consequences of lustful thoughts?

Shall not have the Spirit Shall deny the faith Shall fear

What is the principle of consistency as it relates to personal revelation?

Sometimes you may struggle with a problem and not get an answer.What could be wrong? It may be that you are not doing anything wrong. It may be that you have not done the right things long enough. Boyd K. Packer

Elder Holland used the words soul, symbol, and sacrament to represent three reasons why we should stay morally clean. Explain those reasons.

Soul - one toying with the God given and satanically coveted body of another, toys with teh soul of that idividual, and trivializes them (including the body) Symbol - only physical symbol unity is bad without total obligation Sacrament - human intimacy is a sacrament, uniting mortals with deity to bring individuals in the world

Elder Kofford recommended that all who are preparing to go to the temple should participate in ________________.

Stake-sponsored temple preparation class

What is surrogate motherhood and what is the Church's position on it?

Surrogacy is the practice by which a woman (called a surrogate mother) becomes pregnant and gives birth to a baby in order to give it to someone who cannot have children. The Church strongly discourages surrogate motherhood. However, this is a personal matter that ultimately must be left to the judgement of the husband and wife. Responsibility for the decision rests solely upon them.

True of False: Members of the Church who encourage, submit to, pay for, or perform an abortion (except when medically necessary) are subject to Church disciplinary action.

TRUE

True or False: Shame is a tool of the adversary.

TRUE

In 1 Corinthians 6, Paul said our physical body is the _________________. He then went on to say: "Ye are not your own, for ye are bought with a price." What does that mean?

Temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you *********************!? Because Jesus paid for our sins and will resurrect us

. What two guiding principles did President Howard W. Hunter say should govern the intimate relationship between husband wife?

Tenderness and respect

What is the Church's position on surgical sterilization?

The Church strongly discourages surgical sterilization as an elective form of birth control. Surgical sterilization should be considered only if (1) medical conditions seriously jeopardize life or health or (2) birth defects or serious trauma have rendered a person mentally incompetent and not responsible for his or her actions.

True or False: The names of stillborn children can be included in the family's group record and temple ordinances can be performed for them.

The family may record the name of a stillborn child on the family group record, followed by the word "stillborn" in parentheses. Temple ordinances are not performed for stillborn children. However, this does not deny the possibility that a stillborn child may be part of the family in the eternities.

Complete the following counsel from Elder Holland: ____________ the best of each other. ____________ the good and ____________the bad.

Think Assume Doubt

Wendy Watson said most husbands and wives wield "weapons of war" that fight against their marital intimacy. How did she define "weapons of war?"

Thoughts, feelings, behaviors keeping spouses seperate from each other in mind Wound, mame, destroy, defile, kill marital intimacy

To achieve intimacy, what three things do women say they most want or need?

To feel cherished and receive non-sexual affection Conversation/feeling understood honesty

Where did the Apostle Paul place charity on the list of Christlike attributes?

Top of the list!

Name the five tests of true love taught by Elder John A. Widtsoe?

True love of man and woman always includes the love of God and the proof of our love of God is obedience to his love Love is always founded in truth and honesty. Lies and deceit, or any other violation of the moral law, are proofs of love's absence Love does not offend or hurt or injure the loved one True love serves and helps the loved one. If there is a need, loves tries to supply ir. If there is a weakness, love supplants it with strength. True love sacrifices for the loved one

Elder Bednar described three different patterns of light associated with the spirit of revelation. Name them.

Turning a light switch on in a room (rare) Gradual light from the rising of the sun (more common) Foggy, you can see just enough to take a few steps

7. Of what two things is the initiatory ordinance comprised?

Washings and anointings Washing is symbolic of spiritual cleansing In the anointing we are promised blessings. They are sealed upon us and will be received if we are faithful

What is the principle of line upon line?

We will receive revelation little by little, not all at once

Elder Holland quoted President Hinckley in saying that most problems in love and marriage ultimately start with ________________?

When we care more about another person than we care about ourselves

Elder Kofford said as you prepare for the temple, the most important thing to evaluate is _____________, because there is no substitute for that

Your level of obedience to God's commandments

Laura Brotherson counseled couples to schedule time for fulfilling sexual encounters. She said that time should be __________ time, not __________ time.

priority time, leftover time