HEA 191 Chapter 5

Which one of the following is characteristic of intimate relationships

They involve need fulfillment

Which of the following is TRUE about communication patterns between men and women

Women tend to be more expressive

Which factor would reduce the likelihood of your choosing a particular person as a partner

Your beliefs, attitudes, and values are significantly different

Anthropologist Helen Fisher and other scientists propose that the feeling that the excitement and passion is gone from a relationship is due to

a decrease in chemicals similar to amphetamines

Family consists of

a network of people that provides support, security, and a sense of belonging

According to Sternberg's triangular theory of love, which type of love combines commitment and intimacy

companionate

A likely reason that people may be meaner online than in person is that

users cannot see the person with whom they are communicating

According to Sternberg's triangular theory of love, the most complete, ideal type of love is

consummate love

People who frequently use social networking sites

have larger social networks than non-users, including offline

Which of the following is TRUE about intimate relationships

They can include relationships with family, friends, and romantic partners

Our neighbors and coworkers are members of our

social network

The definition of the term family

changes over time

When Marcy moved into her dorm, her parents and her best friend helped. This example BEST illustrates

instrumental support

What is social capital

the collective value of all of the people in your social network and the likelihood of them providing social support

Which of the following statements about connectedness is TRUE

Collective connectedness appears to be on the rise in the United States

Which of the following is the BEST example of emotional support

Eduardo listens to his sister as she describes to him how her boyfriend broke up with her

Which of the following is TRUE about your family of origin

It includes the people who were living in the house during your first years of life

Which of the following is TRUE about appropriate self-disclosure

It involves sharing feelings and information as a means of getting to know a person

Both Ben and Betty see themselves as responsible for their own choices, decisions, and actions in their relationship, thus demonstrating their

accountability

Greg and Kate always support each other's interests, hoping to ensure that the other will succeed. This BEST demonstrates that they are

advocates for each other

Rico and Chris are close friends and classmates. Each day they are an important influence on each other's actions. This example BEST demonstrates their

behavioral interdependence

After stubbing his toe, Tom told Connie that he was in agonizing pain. Connie said she believed him, but rolled her eyes. Tom most likely

believed that Connie felt he was exaggerating his pain.

Julio wants to strengthen his relationship with LaVonne by sharing personal information with her. To get over his fear of disclosing his feelings, Julio can do all of the following EXCEPT

blame his parents for his imperfections

Emily and Rosa are close friends who are able to share their feelings freely, providing support and reassurance. This example demonstrates their

emotional availability

Anthropologist Helen Fisher and other scientists have described attraction as

feelings of elation and euphoria produced by neurochemicals

Through our relationships with others, we fulfill our needs for

intimacy, social integration, and nurturance

Relationships characterized by behavioral interdependence, need fulfillment, emotional attachment, and emotional availability are

intimate relationships

Social support may BEST help reduce stress by

making challenges look less forbidding

Jake and Kate have been dating for two years and have a close relationship. Kate feels that she has someone to care for who also cares for her. This example BEST demonstrates Jake and Kate's

need to nurture each other

Direct eye contact is

offensive in some cultures

Lisa and Abby are sisters and best friends. Both feel they can share their worries and concerns with one another. This example demonstrates

social integration

Brett and Melissa have a very strong relationship in which they are able to give and receive emotionally without a fear of rejection or being hurt. This example demonstrates that they

are emotionally available in their relationship.

By deciding that he didn't have time to vote in the last election, Derrick missed an opportunity to build

collective connectedness

In relationships, the process of resolving differences peacefully and creatively is

conflict resolution

When romance lasts beyond the four-year mark, what natural opiates give partners a sense of security, peace, and calm

endorphins

A hormone referred to as a "cuddle chemical" that boosts feelings of satisfaction and attachment is

oxytocin

According to attraction theory

proximity and similarities influence who a person falls in love with

Friendships

require time, effort, and commitment

According to Sternberg's triangular theory of love, which type of love combines intimacy and passion

romantic

Which of the following traits is important in relationships and involves having a realistic appreciation of one's own worth and ability

self-nurturance

All of the following are true about intimate relationships EXCEPT that

they may lack emotional availability

Self-disclosure can be a double-edged sword because

you risk the possibility that the other person will reject you

As the end of the term approached, Hakim became increasingly anxious about failing calculus and losing his scholarship. His best friend, who had taken the class the semester before, reminded Hakim that he'd aced every exam thus far, and that the final would cover the same topics. This example BEST illustrates

appraisal support

According to Sternberg's triangular theory of love, love involves

intimacy, passion, and commitment

The growth of Internet dating has made it easier to

meet people outside your proximity

Relational connectedness is MOST likely to be enhanced by

meeting a friend for lunch

In face-to-face conversations

men frown more often than women, and women smile more often than men

Steve and Janelle are friends. When they meet weekly for coffee, they greet each other with a hug. This is an example of

nonverbal communication

Which of the following statements about intimate relationships is TRUE

Supportive intimate relationships are associated with a longer life span

Sam and Kris have entered a relationship and are very preoccupied with each other. They constantly want to be with or talk to each other. This example demonstrates that they are

fascinated by each other.

When Hiro confessed to Mina that he was attracted to her intelligence, sense of humor, and concern for others, Mina told him that she admired the same qualities in him. This is an example of

reciprocity

You are most likely to listen BEST when

you believe the speaker is saying something you can relate to