Religion - Chapter 13

how should one's children be treated

as children of god

what vices can result from lack of parental discipline

become selfish, insensitive to the needs of others, habitually lazy, never fulfill reasonable tasks

what is the extent of a person's duty toward authority according to the 4th commandment

begins with parents extends outward

what does it mean to say the 4th commandment takes pride of place among the commandments referring to the person

begins with parents, first refer to our relationship with our neighbor- helps to relate because we first learn in family to be a good neighbor

what is the limit to parents authority over their children regarding living the fairh

can't force a particular vocation in children

the 4th commandment is the only commandment with a promise. identify the promise and explain what it means. how does the book of sirach confirm that promise

children must heed father so we can live. if we honor our parents and things will go well for us

list the 5 obligations that parents have toward their children

discipline, care for spiritually, care for physically, educate in faith and life, love them

what are the 3 principal aspects of christian parenting

discipline, fairness and understanding, tech to practice faith

how is one who forsakes his father a blasphemer

disrespecting something sacred makes a blasphemer

what is the demand of charity toward members of the extended family? how does it extend further

duty to love them care for them, maintain relationship with then

who are husband and wife most obligated to love

each other

what does the following statement mean "a person's upbringing and moral and physical support find their ideal setting in the family"

family is the best place to grow up, what one learns withing the family he will live outside of his family

what is the basis for the obligation to respect the authority of the state

god as an extension from the 4th commandment

why should we obey legitimate authority

god gave authority if disobey authority the. we disobey god

where does respect for parents originate

god who gives us the gift of life and then our parents who give us life through hope and love

explain the hierarchical or relational aspect of human love

god-spouse-parent/child-siblings

define extended family. what changes have occurred that make the extended family less common today? what 3 obligations do families have to the extended relatives

grandparents, aunts, uncles; family members not within the immediate household. grandparents put in nursing homes, move away, lack of communication, divorces. keep in touch, love them, honor, affection, gratitude

what is the relationship between the family and good citizenship

healthy family promotes healthy citizenship

what does it mean that all authority comes from god

hierarchy, he is the authority that all have to answer to

why are children to obey their parents

honor your father and mother

what is the child's obligation to his parents

honor, obey, respect as representatives of god

why does the church insist that love is the foundation of the family

if you don't have love as the foundation, you can't love others

how does discipline look to the person who successfully receives it

it's humbling and helps makes us better

what can parents instill in their children through discipline

knowledge, good use of freedom, temperance, sense of responsibility

what is the problem with parents who just want to be friends with their children

lack of discipline as result children fail to learn how to work well, good manner, responsibility, and selfish

what is the importance of the good example of oarents

lead us by example we learn by example

why is it not sufficient for parents to simply send their children to catholic schools or to the parish for a religious education

learn through parents examples

according to the book of sirach, what is the origin of the hierarchy within the family, in which children are below their parents

lord honored father over children and confirmed right mother over sons

what is the purpose of authority

need rules to serve the individual and the common good

why are children forever in their parent's debt

parents give them life, never caught up with the things they gave us

how does marital fidelity affect a child's respect for authority

promotes respect for others, obedience toward god and other authority

what does it mean to say that public authority is obliged to respect the fundamental rights of the human person as well as to guarantee the conditions that make the exercise of these rights possible

public authority must protect human rights

filial

relating to or befitting a son or daughter

what does true family responsibility require

respect and care for the old, young, sick, and handicapped

how should children treat their parents, even if they grow old and senile

respect and love them, don't cause grief and disrespect, take care of them

list the 4 obligations children have for their parents

respect, obey, love, honor

explain why discipline is necessary in the upbringing of children. in what ways might god discipline us

so we know how to treat other people, makes us better, brings about perfection

why is it legitimate for authors to possess powr

to enforce rules, bring about order to serve the common good

what is the principle of subsidarity

to provide order to serve the individual and the common good

what is filial piety

treating ones parents with respect and awe

what is the relationship between good discipline and love

true love will bring about discipline-occurs for the betterment of the child

what are some of the qualities of christ that parents and children should imitate

unconditional love

what is the message of the phrase, "do not provoke your children to anger"

warning parents not to discourage children by unreasonable discipline and restraint

why should children obey a parent who has character flaws

we all have flaws

why do parents not have absolute authority over their children

we are children of god entrusts us to our parents

when does a child not have to obey a parent

when it's morally wrong

when might one refuse to obey public authority

when it's not morally right

under what circumstances might the laws of a state be opposed to the moral law

when they fail to meet the requirements of a true moral law

why is it essential for parents to be good role models for their children? if they are not, then do their children no longer have an obligation to respect them

when they're good role models, then children will have respect for them. yes because they gave us life and are children of god

how is the 4th commandment a two-way street between children and parents

100% we give to parents what our parents gave to us

define love

a choice, you choose to love another; allow them to be who they are without expecting them to change for you

what are 2 negative trends in current society regarding the relationship between parents and their children

technology-disrespect authority parents follow examples and abandon obligation to be the authority

what is the relationship between the fundamental rights of the person and public authority

the public authority is obligated to respect the fundamental rights of the person protecting these rights

why should students obey their teachers

they're entrusted with your care by your parents and have authority over us