Psychology of Childhood - Final

consultant

Fay and Cline say their Love and Logic method is a(n) ________ model of parenting.

False

I said in our lecture on "assets" that we should take an "at-risk" approach when dealing with children and youth.

purpose

A favorable resolution of the conflict between initiative and guilt in Erikson's theory leads to a sense of

65%

According to Ainsworth, _____% of the population is "securely" attached.

indifferent to the mother's presence during the procedure

According to Ainsworth, an anxious-avoidant infant is __________.

True

According to Ainsworth, the 'securely' attached child will cry when its mother leaves the room.

behaves in a healthy manner

According to Bowlby and Ainsworth, a one-year-old who uses the mother as a "base of support"

the parents' own confidence

According to Erikson, trust ultimately depends on

the stranger situation

Ainsworth's research technique was called __________.

being aggressive

Alex is scared of being aggressive, powerful. He always lets his dominating girlfriend make all the decisions and she frequently complains that he is "not a man." He will often give in on a decision and then quietly sabotage it when his partner is not around. He feels his partner is never happy with him and always has to win. Alex's basic fear is likely:

competence

Alex is scared of being aggressive, powerful. He always lets his dominating girlfriend make all the decisions and she frequently complains that he is "not a man." He will often give in on a decision and then quietly sabotage it when his partner is not around. He feels his partner is never happy with him and always has to win. Sounds like Alex was wounded during the stage of __________.

the compromiser

Alex is scared of being aggressive, powerful. He always lets his dominating girlfriend make all the decisions and she frequently complains that he is "not a man." He will often give in on a decision and then quietly sabotage it when his partner is not around. He feels his partner is never happy with him and always has to win. The adaptation to childhood wounding Alex likely developed was:

True

Bowlby believed that initially infants will smile at anyone.

versatile villager

During Karp's __________ stage, the toddler learns social rules and acquires sophisticated language skills.

clever cave kid

During Karp's __________ stage, the toddler's hand is flexible enough to use more toys and he/she can finally make circular scribbles, a sign of control and planning.

knee-high neanderthal

During Karp's __________ stage, toddlers can solve a few basic problems, like planning a simple hunt or selecting a good rock to use as an axe.

desires; demands of others

For Erikson, the ego is strategically placed between two existential poles. On the one pole are its __________; on the other (is)are the __________.

True

For Hendrix, being single is an important rite of passage.

False

For Hendrix, healthy relationships are always peaceful and blissful.

True

For Hendrix, marriage can heal our childhood wounds.

False

For Hendrix, one can have a successful relationship without looking at how one got hurt in childhood.

False

For Hendrix, the brain is not important in understanding relationships.

False

For Hendrix, the selection of a mate is a rational, conscious decision.

True

For Hendrix, what individuals most want in life is a sense of connection.

"If I pursue X (a desirable objective), then Y (a terrible calamity) will occur to me or to someone else"

Grim Unconscious Beliefs have the following structure:

Hagrid

Harry finds out that he is a wizard from whom?

False

Hendrix believes that the ideal state for mature adults is being single.

True

Hendrix believes that there was a time before our birth when we felt connected to everything and everyone.

False

Hendrix is a strong believer in divorce.

True

Hendrix talks about the difference between the "new" brain and the "old" brain.

True

Historically, people haven't always freely chosen their marriage partners.

They lie and pretend to see something so that they don't appear stupid.

How do the people in town react when they view the work of the weavers in the Emperor's New Clothes?

internalized working model

In Bowlby's theory, if an infant/child can comfort itself while mother is physically away, this is an indication that the infant/child has a(n) __________.

6 months-3 years

In Bowlby's theory, the major period of attachment in which an infant becomes bonded to 1 person, usually lasts from __________.

a few clearly stated rules

In Canter's Assertive discipline method. The parent is supported by ______.

2-12 years

In Psychology, childhood technically ranges from ________.

. make mental demands for associations, visual observations, or routinized information, e.g., "What is the name of this...?" or "This is a boat."

In Sigel's Distancing model, "Level 1" strategies:

make demands to classify and/or to relate disparate events, e.g., "Classify these objects" or "How are these shapes like these shapes?"

In Sigel's Distancing model, "Level 2" strategies:

make demands upon the child to engage in causal inferences, to predict outcomes, to employ hypothetical reasoning, to transform from one symbolic medium to another, e.g., "Can you show me some different ways to illustrate the concept of...?" or "What would happen if...?"

In Sigel's Distancing model, "Level 3" strategies:

anger

In love and logic, adults must set firm, loving limits using enforceable statements without showing __________.

mental life

In the how class works lecture, I said that the major focus of the course is the ________ of children.

separation

Jane is terrified of being abandoned in her relationship. She never feels satisfied in her relationship and complains that her partner is emotionally unavailable and detached. She feels like he is just not there for her. Jane's basic fear is _____.

attachment

Jane is terrified of being abandoned in her relationship. She never feels satisfied in her relationship and complains that her partner is emotionally unavailable and detached. She feels like he is just not there for her. Sounds like Jane was wounded during the _____ stage.

the clinger

Jane is terrified of being abandoned in her relationship. She never feels satisfied in her relationship and complains that her partner is emotionally unavailable and detached. She feels like he is just not there for her. The adaptation to childhood wounding she has developed is _____.

loss of self through contact

John is terrified of being rejected in his relationship. He feels his partner is way too demanding and she wants more closeness than he can handle. She claims that he is detached from her and very difficult to get close to. John's basic fear is:

attachment

John is terrified of being rejected in his relationship. He feels his partner is way too demanding and she wants more closeness than he can handle. She claims that he is detached from her and very difficult to get close to. Sounds like John was wounded during the __________ stage.

the avoider

John is terrified of being rejected in his relationship. He feels his partner is way too demanding and she wants more closeness than he can handle. She claims that he is detached from her and very difficult to get close to. The adaptation to childhood wounding John has developed is __________.

being shamed

Joy feels her husband is totally scatterbrained and disorganized. She complains that he doesn't know what he wants out of life and is way too passive. She frequently dominates him and criticizes what he does. She constantly feels ashamed and angry. Joy's basic fear is:

identity

Joy feels her husband is totally scatterbrained and disorganized. She complains that he doesn't know what he wants out of life and is way too passive. She frequently dominates him and criticizes what he does. She constantly feels ashamed and angry. Sounds like Joy was wounded during the _____ stage.

the controller

Joy feels her husband is totally scatterbrained and disorganized. She complains that he doesn't know what he wants out of life and is way too passive. She frequently dominates him and criticizes what he does. She constantly feels ashamed and angry. The adaptation to childhood wounding Joy has developed is ______.

being controlled by others

Julie is always picking a fight with her husband. If he wants something, she feels the urge to do the opposite. She hates to be controlled or told what to do. She doesn't really respect her partner and feels that he is never on her side. She also thinks he's way too nice and lets other people walk all over him. Julie's basic fear is:

intimacy

Julie is always picking a fight with her husband. If he wants something, she feels the urge to do the opposite. She hates to be controlled or told what to do. She doesn't really respect her partner and feels that he is never on her side. She also thinks he's way too nice and lets other people walk all over him. Sounds like Julie was wounded during the stage of __________.

the rebel

Julie is always picking a fight with her husband. If he wants something, she feels the urge to do the opposite. She hates to be controlled or told what to do. She doesn't really respect her partner and feels that he is never on her side. She also thinks he's way too nice and lets other people walk all over him. The adaptation to childhood wounding she has developed is __________.

ambassador

Karp suggests with regard to parenting, we should be a(n) __________ from the 21st century.

Love relationships

One of the major themes discussed in the how class works lecture was ______.

exploration

Ron feels like he is smothered by his wife. He feels she is needy and insecure. He can only spend so much time with her and sets limits for himself as to how long he'll be with her on a typical day and then will take off with his friends to play golf or go hunting for long periods of time. She feels neglected. It sounds like Ron was wounded during the ______ stage.

being absorbed

Ron feels like he is smothered by his wife. He feels she is needy and insecure. He can only spend so much time with her and sets limits for himself as to how long he'll be with her on a typical day and then will take off with his friends to play golf or go hunting for long periods of time. She feels neglected. Ron's basic fear is _____.

the isolator

Ron feels like he is smothered by his wife. He feels she is needy and insecure. He can only spend so much time with her and sets limits for himself as to how long he'll be with her on a typical day and then will take off with his friends to play golf or go hunting for long periods of time. She feels neglected. The adaptation to childhood wounding he has developed is likely ________.

False

T or F. According to Ainsworth, only a small minority of the population is 'securely'attached.

judge how the cloth looks and how the work is going

The Emperor sends an honest minister and official to visit the swindlers in order to

True

The Imago represents traits that you deny in yourself.

Focuses on you not them

The defining feature of an "enforceable statement" in Love and Logic is that it ___________.

having or expressing needs

Tom feels like he always puts his partner first. He rarely gets angry or asks for anything. He feels that his partner needs him for survival. However, he feels like his partner doesn't appreciate his efforts and sacrifices. He constantly feels depressed and resentful of his partner. His basic fear is __________.

Concern

Tom feels like he always puts his partner first. He rarely gets angry or asks for anything. He feels that his partner needs him for survival. However, he feels like his partner doesn't appreciate his efforts and sacrifices. He constantly feels depressed and resentful of his partner. It sounds like Tom was wounded during the __________ stage.

the caretaker

Tom feels like he always puts his partner first. He rarely gets angry or asks for anything. He feels that his partner needs him for survival. However, he feels like his partner doesn't appreciate his efforts and sacrifices. He constantly feels depressed and resentful of his partner. The adaptation to childhood wounding he/she has developed (e.g., The Avoider, The Rebel) is

the caretaker

Tom feels like he always puts his partner first. He rarely gets angry or asks for anything. He feels that his partner needs him for survival. However, he feels like his partner doesn't appreciate his efforts and sacrifices. He constantly feels depressed and resentful of his partner. The adaptation to childhood wounding he/she has developed (e.g., The Avoider, The Rebel) is __________.

False

We found that the number of assets present in a person's life is correlated with family income.

False

We found that the number of assets present in a person's life is correlated with race.

False

We said in our lecture on "assets" that the future success of our youth lies in the hands of our teachers and therapists.

A wild boar

What animal does the huntsman kill instead to trick the queen into thinking Snow White is dead?

Pieces of bread

What did Hansel use to create a trail the second time they were lead into the woods?

The gems and gold coins they found in the witch's house

What did the children return home with that helped them live happily ever after with their father?

pierces her all over with his prickles

What does Hans do to the first king's daughter?

a pig or two & a cockerel with shoes

What does Hans-My-Hedgehog ask for from his father in exchange for him leaving home?

He continues with the procession

What does the Emperor do after everyone cries that "he has nothing on"?

Her heart

What does the Queen ask the huntsman to bring to her as proof of Snow White's death?

A beggar woman

What does the Queen dress up as to trick Snow White into eating the deliciously red and tempting but poisoned apple?

Shows your true heart's desire

What does the mirror of Erised do in Harry Potter?

She is forced to wear red-hot iron shoes, and to dance until she drops dead

What is the Queen's eventual punishment for her attempts to have Snow White killed?

He is sleeping

What is the ogre doing each time Jack steals from him?

They are miners

What job do the dwarves do in Snow White?

early childhood

What period of life does Egan say "mythical thinking" takes place?

Seeker

What position does Harry play on the Quidditch team?

Her mother dies

What sad thing happens when Snow White is born?

Drinking unicorn blood

What was the hooded figure doing in the woods in Harry Potter?

Individual development

When Karp says, "Ontogeny Recapitulates Phylogeny," Ontogeny means

Species development

When Karp says, "Ontogeny Recapitulates Phylogeny," Phylogeny means:

bag pipes

When his father leaves town, what does Hans-My-Hedgehog ask him for on his return?

True

When we meet our Imago, we usually feel that we already know them.

Grunnings

Where does Mr Dursley work in Harry Potter?

In a cottage in the woods.

Where was the setting of Hansel & Gretel?

The fairy godmother

Which character familiar from retellings of the Cinderella story is absent from the Grimms' version?

Jack steals the golden hen.

Which of these things happens on Jack's second trip up the beanstalk?

Professor Quirrell

Who was really trying to get the Stone in Harry Potter?

She wanted all the food for herself and didn't want to share with them.

Why did the woodcutter's wife in Hansel and Gretel want to take the children into the forest and leave them there?

Logic

_____ in Love and Logic are the reasonable and sometimes natural consequences that stem from inappropriate behavior.

Love

______ in Love and Logic is nurturing of the child toward the responsible, competent, self-confident person the parent and society believe the child can be.

burdening

_________ is when one or both of our parents seemed weighed down, unsuccessful, or unfulfilled with life and we feel like it is our fault.

attachment

_________ was the name that Bowlby gave to the evolutionary mechanism which provides a balance between infants' need for safety and security and their need for varied learning experiences.

toddlerese

__________ in Karp's theory is when we use short, repetitive phrases along with proper body language and facial expressions.

disloyalty

__________ is the imaginary crime based on the belief that if we are critical of our parents in any way, if we break family rules or secrets, we may feel terribly bad.

outdoing

__________ is when we feel guilty and sabotage our success because we have surpassed a family member in some way, are more happy, more successful, have a better marriage or relationship.