Lesson 3: Peer Social Comparison
compete with yourself
although comparing yourself to others is inevitable, as it is part of human nature, focus should be directed towards the self
Leon Festinger's Social Comparison Theory
believes that humans have the innate tendency to evaluate themselves in various aspects of their lives
physical changes
changes in physical appearance are most evident in this stage
upward
comparing self to someone better
downward
comparing self to someone worse
peer
defined as an equal of a person - someone of the same rank, or status or background as an individual
leadership skills
in everyday encounters with peers, you learn how to compromise, negotiate, solve conflicts, be creative and also become flexible in adapting to different situations - just a few skills to help you become good leaders in the future
be inspired
instead of cultivating feelings of envy and helplessness, let the differences that exist between you and others become an instrument for your own goals
cognitive changes
it is seen in the chart that some adolescents are already able to organize their thoughts and ideas during these years
gratitude is key
learn to appreciate the positive things in your life
socio-emotional changes
this domain is probably the most active in terms of change
social skills
you practice the rules of socializing mostly through your peers. it is through them that you learn how to be tactful and be sensitive to others' needs and feelings.
