7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens, concepts
Habit #1
Be proactive
Habit #2
Begin with the end in mind
Circle of Concern
Circle of Concern reactive people focus their efforts in the Circle of concern-- things over which they have little to no control: the national debt, terrorism, the weather.
Circle of Influence
Circle of Influence proactive people focus their efforts on their Circle of Influence. They work on the things they can do something about ; health, children and problems at work.
Concept of Sharpening the Saw
Habits 1-6 won't work if you do not take time to relax! You need to let your mind, body and soul rest in order to be your best self! Sharpening the saw is about self renewal. 4 areas of your life you should always renew; physical, social/emotional, mental, spiritual.
Habit #3
Put first things first
Habit #5
Seek first to understand then to be understood
Concept of Win-Win
Sees life as a cooperative arena not a competitive one. It is a frame of mind that seeks mutual benefits. Your nice and tough, your empathetic and brave, it is the essence of real maturity, everyone wins!
Habit #7
Sharpen the Saw
Habit #6
Synergize
Personal Mission Statement
The best ways to incorporate Habit 2 is by developing a Personal Mission Statement. It is your plan for success, keeps your goals in focus and moves your ideas into the real world. What is your personal mission statement? What are some life goals you have and what is your plan to get there?
Habit #4
Think win win
Concept of Synergy
Two heads are better than one! Teamwork, open-mindedness, and finding new solutions to old problems. Working together allows you to produce better than individually. Accepting and embracing positive influence from others.
paradigm shift
a change in your point of view
personal mission statement
breaking down your goals into bite sized pieces
Synergy action plan
define the problem or opportunity their way/ my way brainstorm the high way
effective
habitually doing something that gets great results over and over again
small rocks
less important things (play video games, instagram, snapchat)
genuine listening
listen with you eyes, ears, & heart stand in their shoes practice mirroring
reactive
making choices based on emotions or feelings
What are the four areas to sharpen?
mind, heart, body & soul
keys to being proactive
pause, think, do take responsibility for your choices
habit
something you do without thinking about it
Big Rocks
the most important things (homework, practice)
What are the 4 paradigms in habit #4?
win-win, win-lose, lose-lose, lose-win
paradigm
your point of view, how you see things
