Altruism

Which is an example of an ulterior motive?

Becky went on a date with Rick because she hoped she'd get a free meal.

Michelle told Jason some personal information and then Jason turned around and told it to Emily. Jason really liked Emily and hoped that sharing information he knew would impress Emily and she would like him. Was Jason's action altruistic?

No, because he didn't respect Michelle's privacy.

Janetta ran a campaign for student body president, and she really wanted to win. She gave election buttons to everyone and told them how much she appreciated their friendship. Then Janetta told each person that she hoped for a vote. Are Janetta's actions altruistic?

No, because she is hoping that people will vote for her.

T/F Altruism is when you do something for others and have very little expectation of getting something in return.

True

paradox

a statement or idea that seems to contradict itself

cynical

distrusting or pessimistic

ulterior motives

hidden reasons for acting a certain way

altruism

selfless actions

Travis helped Carlos work on his car. In return, Carlos helped Travis learn some guitar chords. Travis didn't expect to get some extra guitar help, but now Travis is inspired to help Carlos again, since it seems Carlos always returns a favor. What does this situation describe?

the paradox of altruism

discern

to recognize or perceive

Which side of the altruism argument are you on? Do you believe people can be completely selfless, or do people always have ulterior motives? Explain your thoughts.

I'm usually on the altruism side, it's just the way I am as a person. I give and give, and never expect anything back. Most people have ulterior motives, everyone is different it just depends on the person.

People who believe in altruism say that the opposite view is very cynical. Why is this?

It makes a person come across as skeptical and suspicious. It appears that you are judging whether or not a person's actions are sincere.

Jonathon verbalized a compliment to Kayden. The compliment seemed sincere, but Kayden wasn't sure. Jonathon has been known to make things up sometimes. But when Jonathon complimented Josh, the compliment was very well received. What is a possible explanation for why two people had different reactions to Jonathon's compliment?

Sometimes it's difficult to discern a person's sincerity.