Sexual Assault Prevention Ongoing Education Quiz - Undergrad RVSM Refresher 2/4 (100%)

Select the response that most closely matches what you'd say to your friend in this situation.

>> "Hey, are you feeling okay about going home? I noticed that you seem a bit worried, so I wanted to check in with you." "Can you just put down the phone so we can hang out?" "It sounds like your partner is controlling you. I can talk to them about chilling out, if you're okay with that..."

A pattern of unwanted contact that is repeated, intimidating, and causes someone to be fearful or suffer emotional distress is:

>> all of the above stalking harassment coercion

One person in a relationship is intentionally doing things that negatively impact the other person's schoolwork, grades, and attendance. This is an example of:

>> D. both A and B B. academic abuse C. none of the above A. relationship abuse

Tori is one of the smartest students in your mechanical engineering class, so you're excited to have her on your project team. However, she's missing deadlines and seems exhausted all the time. You're concerned that she's not prepared for your group presentation. When you ask Tori what's up, she reveals that every time she has an important deadline, her boyfriend starts a big fight with her. This has prevented her from focusing on the project and getting enough sleep. Select the response that most closely matches how you would react in this situation.

>> "I'm so sorry to hear about that he's been acting that way. You don't deserve that. Have you considered reaching out to resources on campus to discuss what's happening?" "Hmm. Yeah, stress in school can sure lead to stress in relationships. You should break up." "Oh, wow, OK. I didn't know that. But still...it would be great if you could still chip in your part of this project. It's important. Like, 60% of our final grade important."

You've just successfully interrupted Chris's behavior, but Chris is confused by what you've done. What do you say next?

>> Hey, we're friends. I'm just looking out for you, and honestly, you really weren't on your game back there. You need to respect what Sara said ― which is "no" ― and move on, OK? You're freaking her out. How do you expect to get any girls by being so creepy? You were being a creep over there ― Sara clearly isn't into you.

Did Jake receive consent before hugging Eva?

>> No

Megan and Layla just went through a messy breakup. Layla has been sending Megan dozens of accusatory text messages every night. Megan tells Layla to stop messaging her and blocks her number. Layla then uses social media to figure out where Megan is and confronts her in person. Do you think Layla may be stalking Megan?

>> Yes, because Layla won't stop contacting Megan after Megan has asked her to stop. No, because Layla isn't threatening Megan. No, because Megan and Layla know each other. No, not quite, it's annoying but not illegal.

Title IX of the Education Amendments Act prohibits:

>> all of the above discrimination based on sex or gender stereotypes sexual and relationship violence discrimination against pregnant or parenting students

Which of the following is an example of coercive tactics?

>> all of the above manipulation pressure intimidation

Ending a relationship respectfully may include:

>> all of the above setting clear boundaries for post-breakup communication preparing and reflecting on what you want to say communicating the decision in a timely manner

Which of the following is the best way to respond if a friend tells you they were sexually assaulted?

>> express your support, listen to them, acknowledge their feelings, and support their decisions - even if you don't agree with them all of the above ask them questions about what happened so you can figure out whether or not it was actually "assault" Make sure that they go to the hospital and/or police department so that they can get medical attention and make a report

Under Title IX, "hostile environment" sexual harassment is best defined as:

>> unwelcome conduct severe, pervasive, and objectively offensive that is based on sex and effectively denies a person equal access to educational opportunities. This definition of "hostile environment" sexual harassment is more restrictive than Title VII's definition of workplace sexual harassment in order to avoid infringing on academic freedom or free speech rights in a higher education environment. annoying behavior that is repeated and sexually motivated trying to contact someone in multiple ways (phone, email, text, etc.) all of the above

You and Darrell have known each other for several years and have become pretty close. You've offered support to Darrell in the past when he's talked about his partner putting him down and criticizing him. Still, you're surprised to see him crying in his car. When you ask him what's wrong, he shares that when he tried to end the relationship, his partner threatened to commit suicide. He doesn't know what to do. Select the response that most closely matches what you'd say to your friend in this situation.

>> "I'm so sorry to hear that. I know that you've been going through a lot lately. Look, suicide threats are really serious, so he needs to talk to a qualified person immediately; there are resources available to support him." "That's super serious. Was he always depressed or have you been having more relationship stress lately?" "I'm sorry this is happening, but we've talked about this before — remember what we said about you being firm about leaving? I care and really don't want you to have to go through this situation over and over again."

You and Tucker play on the same ultimate frisbee team and often hang out after games. He's usually all smiles, but one day he shows up late to a game and he's visibly angry. When you ask how he's doing, Tucker explains that he's furious at his girlfriend for going to a party without asking him if it was OK. He tells you that he found out about it when he was checking her phone. He calls her names and swears to "make her sorry." Select the response that most closely matches how you would react in this situation.

>> "Whoa, slow down a sec. I can tell you're angry, but threatening to "make her sorry" isn't okay, man. Let's talk about why this bothers you so much." "Dude, you're being way over the top. You shouldn't be upset about any of that. You know she's committed to you. You need to chill out." "What? I've never heard you talk like this. I know you're really mad, so she must have really struck a nerve. Anything I can do?"

If you observe someone who is making another person uncomfortable or attempting to take advantage of them, you can:

>> All of the above get friends or people nearby involved directly express your concern interrupt and distract the person

Someone may intentionally use alcohol to create conditions in which it's easier for them to commit sexual assault because:

>> D. both A and B A. alcohol inhibits motor control, making it difficult for someone to resist and/or leave a dangerous situation. B. alcohol affects judgment, making it more difficult for someone to detect risky situations C. not applicable; alcohol is not a drug that perpetrators use to commit assault

Trauma-induced paralysis (or tonic immobility) involves:

>> D. both A and B C. emotional mood swings B. an autonomic hormonal response to trauma A. a person's inability to physically respond to trauma

True or false. Sexual harassment always involves repeated behavior. A single incident is never sufficient to qualify as sexual harassment.

>> False

You're at a party and you see your friend Chris trying to talk to Sara, a classmate he's had a big crush on. You've noticed that Chris seems to be making Sara uncomfortable, and isn't getting the hint to leave her alone. It's likely others around you have noticed, too. What do you do?

>> Go up to Chris and tell him that he's making Sara uncomfortable. Nothing, Chris is just trying to get to know Sara. Join Chris and engage in conversation with Sara and her friends alongside him.

You tell Lowell that you're sorry this is happening to him. You explain that this isn't his fault — he has the right to decide if and when he wants to have sex, and Ivy should respect that. Lowell responds, "Thanks for saying that. But it's really not a big deal. She's a good person. I just need to be better about setting boundaries." What would you say to Lowell next?

>> I appreciate you sharing this, and you deserve to be treated better. Do you want to talk about it more, or I can help connect you to someone on campus to talk to? That's probably true. Everyone wants something different out of relationships, and you know about your relationship better than I do, so you're probably right. Do you know what Ivy is doing is a crime? You should report it so that she doesn't do it to other people.

You empathize with Lowell, saying that his situation sounds serious. Then you ask him how he feels about it. He says, "Well, it's definitely annoying. It's more than annoying, actually. But then again, it's my fault for just going along with it, you know? I guess I just give in because it's easier." How would you respond to Lowell?

>> I'm really sorry to hear this, and I want you to know that it's definitely not your fault. You have the right to decide if and when you want to have sex, and Ivy should respect that. You shouldn't just go along with it. It kinda sounds like she's not respecting your wishes and forcing you to have sex with her. If I were you, I'd report it. Are you sure you're being clear with her? That just doesn't sound like something Ivy would do.

Did Jake receive consent from Eva? (2nd video, 50sec)

>> No

Is this conversation an example of how to ask for consent?

>> No

A couple of days later you run into Chris. He starts complaining saying, "Sara's being so cruel. I keep texting her about going out with me. And yesterday, she told me she was blocking my number. Can I use your phone to call her?" Chris is obviously still interested in pursuing Sara. How could you respond to his request?

>> Nope. She obviously doesn't want you to contact her. Be respectful and stop trying. Honestly, you're going too far, and you could get yourself in trouble. You know there's a way to keep your number from showing up when you call her, so you can avoid the block, right? Why don't you just do that?

Lowell has always been one of your more outgoing friends. He plans weekend road trips and organizes lots of events. But lately, he's been a bit disengaged, so you ask how he's doing. Lowell seems a little embarrassed, but then says, "Things are going pretty well with Ivy, but sometimes she does this weird thing when she's drunk. She'll get really aggressive and insistent about having sex even if I'm really tired, or not in the mood, or even if I straight up say 'no.' I think she might have a drinking problem." What would you say to Lowell?

>> That sounds pretty serious. How do you feel about it? That sounds like rape, you should report her to the school. Yeah, people do weird things when they're drunk. Maybe you should get her some help.

Dai initially asked for and received consent from Ben. Does it matter that Dai has been drinking and appeared to be incapacitated?

>> Yes

Did Jake receive consent from Eva? (1st video)

>> Yes