LUOA Health II- Module 2

Choose the different types of verbal abuse from the list below:

Accusing and Blaming Withholding Verbal abuse disguised as a joke Countering Blocking and diverting Discounting

What are the five love languages?

Affirming words, gifts, service, quality time, touch

What are recommendations when interacting with young people dealing with death?

All of the above

What are health benefits of healthy relationships and friendships?

Being in a healthy relationships and friendships can benefit your health greatly. Having those people in your life can boost your mood when you are having a rough day. It can help you with stress and dealing with bad situations. Your good friends can even help you make good decisions.

Which do not show any signs or symptoms? Mark all that apply.

Chlamydia

The third level from the bottom on Maslow's pyramid is love and relationship need. Where do most of us get this need met? Pick all that apply.

Cousins Friends Family

Who obeyed God, yet was tested by being thrown into a den of lions?

Daniel

What is it called when one partner exerts power or control over another?

Dating abuse

Explain the 5 stages of grief as based on the video: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression and Acceptance

Denial is when you don't want to accept the truth. Anger is when you are angry that you loved one passed away. Bargaining is when you are dissatisfied or disgusted at the truth. Depression is when you become deeply sad about the loss of your loved one. Acceptance is the last stage and it is when you finally accept that the loved is gone and you life has to go on.

The Greek word for suffering is pathos, which also means what?

Disease, or feeling

What are the five categories of emotional intelligence? (Pick all that apply)

Empathy Motivation Social skills Self awareness Self regulation

Pick one of the three books quoted today and explain how it could influence you and the way you communicate. Joshua Harris' book Boy Meets Girl Gary Chapman, The 5 Love Languages John Maxwell, Relationships 101

Gary Chapman wrote a very influential book called The 5 Languages of Love. It is influential because it says how each person doesn't want to be loved the same way. It also says how we can love each other different ways.

Deep intense sorrow resulting from the death of someone or a loss of something is called _____________.

Grief

What are some of the negative characteristics of friendships? Click all that apply.

Guilt Oppression Covert Manipulation Possessiveness Crossing Boundaries Control Selfishness

Which disease breaks down your immune system and could in turn allow a small virus to then kill you?

HIV and AIDS

What was it about Joseph Feeley III that made him standout?

He had godly character and loved people

Which disease is 100% preventable if you abstain from sexual activity? Mark all that apply.

Herpes Syphilis Gonorrhea Genital Warts AIDS and HIV

Abraham Maslow was well-known for what?

His hierarchy of basic needs

What traits are indications that you are a good friend? Pick all that apply

I am able to be non-judgmental. I am generally very dependable. I am trustworthy. I am supportive of others in their bad times. I am loyal to the people I care about. I am easily able to trust others. I am supportive of others in their good times. I am usually able to see the humor in life. I experience and express empathy for others. I am self-confident. I am a good listener. I am honest with others I am fun to be around

What are your thoughts on what Matt Chandler says about relationships?

I enjoyed what he said about relationships. It is so important to know the other person's intentions before they collide with our own.

Which of the 13 essential traits of friendship do you feel like you do best?

I feel like I am best at being supportive of people when they are in bad situations, and I am a good listener.

If you had a friend who was going through a hard time, what would you do to help them?

I would pray with them and ask if I could do anything that could help. I would make sure that they feel loved.

After reading 2 Corinthians 11-12 what were the calamities Paul went through?

Imprisonment, beatings, hunger, shipwrecks, and sleeplessness

Why is it important to understand Maslow's Hierarchy of needs when dealing with people and even when sharing the Gospel with them?

It is very important to understand Maslow's Hierarchy so we can understand and empathize with others. It is also important so we can know how to help others live fulfilling lives.

Risk factors of suicide include ____________________ (Pick all that apply).

Keeping firearms in the home Incarceration Exposure to the suicidal behavior of others One or more prior suicide attempts Family history of suicide Family violence Physical or sexual abuse Family history of mental disorder or substance abuse Chronic physical illness

___________ take their lives at nearly four times the rate of __________, accounting for 78% of suicides in the U.S.

Men, Women

Episodes of aggressive behavior resulting in harm or injury is ___________________

Physical Abuse

What did Maslow use as a reference point when developing his hierarchy?

Self

What are the stages of grief given in the book When Will I Stop Hurting?

Shock, crying, sighing, anger, depression

What are the warning signs that someone may be thinking about or planning to commit suicide?

Some warning signs would be if someone talks about death frequently, shows mood swings, acts recklessly, drinks or takes drugs excessively, or becomes withdrawn.

How can a person's words affect us?

Someone's words can either affect us positively or negatively.

What word means to endure injury, pain, or death?

Suffering

What term means enough to meet the needs of a certain situation?

Sufficient

What does T.H.I.N.K stand for from the video? Which do you struggle with the most? What can you do next time to help fix this in your thought process?

T- True H- Helpful I- Inspiring N- Necessary K- Kind I think I struggle with saying things that are necessary; because I can just go on trails of saying things that are not necessary to anyone.

Explain all 5 levels of Maslow's hierarchy of needs with examples of each.

The first level is physiological. That includes eating, sleeping, and hygiene. The second level is safety. That includes security of family, property, and employment. The third level is love/belonging. That includes friendship and family. The fourth level is esteem. That includes self-esteem, confidence, and respect for others. The fifth level is self-actualization. That includes creativity, mortality, problem solving, and spontaneity.

What is self-actualization?

The process of establishing oneself as a whole person

What do chapters Deuteronomy 28-30 speak about?

The sharp contrast between those who obey God and those who do not.

What happens when a person is in shock after hearing about a death?

They have a hard time thinking clearly and are very emotional.

John Maxwell states: "Nobody cares how much you know until they know how much you care." What does this mean?

This means that it doesn't matter how much information that someone has on a topic. Because if it seems like you don't care about it at all, no one is going to listen to you because it won't seem important.

What is empathy?

To identify with and understand the feelings of others

If you suspect that someone may be thinking about suicide you should take them seriously.

True

Choose the different types of verbal abuse from the list below:

Undermining Trivializing Judging and Criticizing Forgetting Name Calling Threatening

The ongoing use of harmful words or a sharp tone to control or dominate another person is _____________

Verbal Abuse

Do you need to increase your friendship quotient? What can you do in order to do that?

You can increase your friendship quotient but you don't necessarily need to. But, you can increase it by being a nice, empathetic, and supporting friend.

Match the terms with their definitions Genital Herpes Gonorrhea Syphilis

a disease characterized by blisters in the genital area a venereal disease involving discharge from the urethra and vagina a chronic bacterial disease

In his book, Josh Harris states that good communication doesn't happen by _____________.

accident

Remember that all people grief differently so one should _____________________________.

be respectful, seek to help, and pray for them

In 2 Corinthians 1 God comforts us in affliction so that we can ______________________________.

comfort others like we were comforted

When you ask "is this helpful," what two things should you think of? Am I desiring to be ________ or ________.

effective right

In his book, Josh Harris says that communication problems stem from a _____________ issue.

heart

What are the traits of Congeniality? Pick all that apply.

self-confidence being fun to be around the ability to see the humor in life

John Maxwell states that everyone wants to be ________________.

somebody

David, Paul and Silas all went to the Lord with their stressful situations instead of _________________.

taking it out on people

The tongue is used for eating, tasting, speaking, yet it is a difficult thing to ____________________.

tame or control

What are traits of integrity? Pick all that apply

the ability to trust others loyalty trustworthiness dependability honesty

What are the traits of caring? Pick all that apply

the ability to withhold judgment effective listening skills the ability to offer support empathy

What is Emotional Intelligence?

the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one's emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically

Proverbs 21 says if you keep your mouth and your tongue you will stay out of __________________.

trouble

Suicide is the second leading cause of death in people from age 10 to age 34.

true