judy ch 2

agape

godly love that is unconditional and unselfish, seeking the good of others first.

what helps the couple to grow in mutual self-giving?

indissolubility

what are the three promises of a Christian marriage?

indissolubility faithfulness fruitfulness

what are some result of the distortion of sin that God intended for marriage?

infidelity, divorce and spousal abuse

offenses against chastity

lust rape fornication prostitution masturbation pornography

what will help you form into a person who is able to embrace both the joys and the difficulties of married life?

making intentional and wise decisions now

What message did Jesus clearly teach from the beginning?

marriage was intended to be indissoluble until death

what rests on the promise of a husband and wife to remain true to each other emotionally, mentally, and sexually.

married love

Is sexual identity changeable or subjective?

no

Prostitution

paying or providing a commodity in exchange for sex

Indissolubility

permanence. in relation to marriage, it means that a marriage cannot be solved either by the withdrawal of consent of the married partners or by civil authorities.

what are all married couples called to a mission of?

procreation and education of children because the Church sees this as a cooperation with love of God the Creator.

what is the second end of the sexual love?

procreation of children

mosaic law

the laws (beginning with the Ten Commandments) that God gave to the Israelite through Moses. it includes the rules for ritual religious observance as well as rules for everyday life.

eros

the love associated with the natural feeling of sexual desire. this is the passionate and intense love that often comes with emotion-based romance and that can often vanish when there is trouble in a relationship.

what is divine economy?

the love of the three divine persons which flows from their sharing in one divine nature in human societies.

Chastity

the moral virtue which provides for the successful integration of sexuality within one's whole identity, leading to the inner unity of the physical and spiritual being

What does individual chastity mean?

the mutual respect of persons toward another

Divine Economy

the name for the divine plan of salvation. "The ultimate end of the whole divine economy is the entry of God's creatures into the perfect unity of the blessed trinity"

philia

the natural love between friends, often translated as "brotherly love". This love is often expressed through shared values, interest, and activities.

what will aid the married couple in living out the sacrament of matrimony?

the promises to which spouses give their full consent

rape

the sexual violation of another person by imposed force or deception

Celibacy

the state or condition of those who have chosen or taken vows to remain unmarried in order to devote themselves entirely to the service of the Church and the Kingdom of God

Storge

the unconditional, emotional love between family members

What is the first end of the sexual love?

the union of the spouses

Couples that receive grace to build up that bond through a lifetime of learning to selflessly give and receive love through?

their permanent commitment

how did the Chosen People's understanding of God's design of marriage develop overtime?

through the development of covenants between God and the Chosen people as well as the Mosaic Law.

Why did Jesus bless marriage and rasied it to the level of a sacrament?

to be a sign of the covenant of love between Christ and the Church

what have studies shown about modern trends of dating in highschool and college?

trends such as "hooking up" and forming early codependent attachments have significant negative physical and emotional consequences that can lead to depression, insecurity, rape, as well as emotional problems in later relationships.

how many sexual identities are possible for the human person?

two

Where do Jewish people hold the practice of marriage to a high standard?

under Mosaic law

Is everyone called to chastity?

yes

ToF: Self mastery is the denial of one's sexuality and the goodness of the sexual act.

F, is NOT

ToF: A foretaste of the great love that God has for each human heart, and that Jesus has for the Church, his bride, is revealed in Mosaic law

False, In the song of songs

ToF: Marriage requires the husband to only provide support for his wife.

False, marriage requires the spouses to provide mutual support to each other

ToF: you can be a good spouse without being a good friend.

false

what are the different ways couples can express their fruitfulness?

fostering serving other families and the church supporting missions for families and children adoption

When did God write the vocation of marriage into the nature of men and women?

from the beginning

what relates directly to the benefit of their children?

fruitfulness

fecundity

fruitfulness, the procreation and education of children as one of the promises of marriage.

what protects and builds up their unity?

faithfullness

fidelity

faithfulness. refers to one of the promises of marriage.

What is the Church's view on what must be reserved only for marriage?

Sex should be totally reserved for marriage

fornication

Sexual intercourse between an unmarried man and an unmarried woman

What vocations require continence?

Single person consecrated religious priest

Personalism

A philosophical movement that emphasizes the meaning and value of human persons and their relationality to each other and God.

What are two fundamental truths about marriage revealed in the two creation accounts?

1) Humans are individuals created to live in communion with another. 2)family life nurtured in marriage is the core of human society.

three things that good marriages have in common.

1) couples are to be committed to each other from the very beginning to make sure their marriage will last forever 2) good communication skills to smooth out problems effectively will create strong marriage. 3)Couples who share common values in faith, parenting, money handling, and family life are a must because communication skills cannot fix that.

calumny

A false statement that harms the reputation of others and gives occasion for false judgments concerning them.

what is the highest form of love?

Agape

what books describe the faithful and loving relationship between spouses?

Books of ruth and Tobit

According to the Church, what is the supreme gift of marriage and contribute greatly to the good of the parent themselves?

Children

Paschal Mystery

Christ's work of redemption, accomplished principally by his Passion, Death, Resurrection, and glorious Ascension. it is commemorated and made present through the sacraments, especially the Eucharist.

What is a special relationship between man and woman that is unique among God's creatures?

Companionship

what is another word for discernment? what does it mean?

Courtship, it means respecting the other person's family and getting to know the character of the other in a spirit of discernment.

explain the difference between "dating for entertainment" and "dating for discernment"

Dating for entertainment is found in highschools and colleges because the person they are dating is a source of entertainment or enjoyment. Dating for discernment is dating to respect the dignity of the other person creating lasting emotional, mental, and physical connections.

detraction

Disclosure of another's faults and sins, without an objectively valid reason, to persons who did not know about them, thus causing unjust injury to that person's reputation.

explain the most important principle of Pope John Paul II talks on the theology of the body.

Each person is made with a body and soul

where were the faithful and loving relationships between spouses first revealed?

In the Song of Songs, on Tobiah and Sarah's wedding night

Why is it significant that Jesus' first public miracle happened at the wedding feat in Cana?

Jesus signals the great importance of marriage in God's plan by making himself a part of it.

What are the four types of love?

Storge, Philia, Eros, Agape

ToF: Christian marriage is much more than a human covenant between a man and a woman, it is a contract inviting God himself to enter into the union between a man and a woman and transform it into a living reflection of God's own love.

T

ToF: The differences between masculinity and femininity and equality of all human persons are important.

T

ToF: Though marriage can be thought of as a "natural" vocation that is ratified by human laws and customs, it is not a purley human institution.

T

ToF: the fact that humans need each other in their maleness and femaleness is evident in the second creation account when God says, "It is not good for man to be alone"

T

what responsibility and blessing did God give the first couple?

The blessing of unity and community and the responsibility of caring for creation and being fruitful in family life.

Masturbation

The deliberate stimulation of the genital organs in order to derive sexual pleasure.

ToF: contraception and other forms of birth control are unacceptable because they do not respect the unitive ends of the sexual act.

True

Natrual family planning

a method approved by the church for naturally planning and spacing the birth of children in marriage that honors the unitive and procreative purposes of the sexual act.

How is chastity lived by married couples?

by respecting the promises of indissolubility, faithfulness, and fruitfulness.

how is the love shared between a husband and a wife made holy?

by sharing in the love of the blessed trinity and this is lived most profoundly in the marital act, the consummation of marriage.

what is the ideal of family life?

children begin to form an understanding of unselfish love through the example of their parents

The sexual differences between men and woman _____ each other and leads to fruitfulness because of the two sexes are an image of the power and tenderness of God.

compliment

what are the three dangers in dating for entertainment?

danger against chastity danger against disturbing the peace of the community danger of resentment, detraction, and calumny

what will affect whatever vocation we are called to, particularly marriage?

developing good moral and virtuous skills

what is the ultimate reason and purpose for dating?

discernment

lust

disordered desire for or inordinate enjoyment of sexual pleasure

efficacious

effecting or accomplishing that which a thing represents.

what is the basic principle about the human person?

everyone desires to love and to be loved

continence

refraining from use of the sexual faculties and any sexual act through self control, which is a fruit of the holy spirit and is granted a person through the aid of prayer.

what did the second creation account emphasize in marriage?

the companionship and unbreakable union between man and woman

what was a rupture in the harmonious relationship between man and woman?

the disobedience of Adam and Eve, the first consequences of sin

Pornography

the display of real or simulated sexual acts or nudity to provoke a sexual response

marriage is one of the most profound and basic expressions of....

the law of self-giving