CHD 224 chapter 7 study guide

"I am unhappy when you do that" is an example of ___________

"I" message/ conflict resolution

intrinsic rewards are things such as a. good grades b. a feeling of pride c. special privileges d. a gold star

a feeling of pride

children who lack social skills tend to exhibit _______________ behavior

aggressive/passive

non-negotiable rules are those that a. can be changes after discussing them b. children help draft c. children can negotiate d. are not open for discussion

are not open for discussion

positive reinforcers are based on a. piagetian theory b. freudian theory c. behaviorist theory d. vygotskys theory

behaviorist theory

caregivers should emphasize ___________ rather than competitiveness when children play games a. losing gracefully b. cooperation c. fairness d. playing by the rules

cooperation

when plying games with school-age children a good strategy is to emphasize ____________________ rather than _______________

cooperation competition

children are ___________ and they often fail to understand what they do affects others

egocentric

the last step in resolving conflicts is to a. ask the caregiver whether the solution will work b. agree not to fight again c. evaluate how the solution is working d. shake hands

evaluate how the solution is working

true/false according to the children's defense fund, homicide is no longer the leading cause of children's death

false

true/false one's self image does not change once it has been established in middle childhood

false

true/false it is not the caregivers responsibility to teach social skills

false

quiet or withdrawn children may a. fear rejection by other children b. be hiding their aggressive feeling c. come from a different ethnic group d. not speak the dominant language

fear rejection by other children

a logical consequence after a child deliberately spills paint while painting would be to a. give the child a 5 minute time out b. have the child clean up the spill c. ban the child from he art area d. call the child's parents

have the child clean up the spill

a conflict plan might include a description of the conflict, the child's usual response, and ____________________

how they might change their behavior

constant denial of feelings by adults makes children distrust their own _________________

inner senses

overly aggressive children act that way because they a. feel powerful b. may have experienced a lot of failure c. have learned they can get what they want d. are suffering from an emotional illness

may have experienced a lot of failure

_____________________ is one of the most powerful strategies adult can use for teaching children to be more cooperative

modeling

children with Asperger's syndrome a. test in the average or above average range of intelligence b. are hyperactive c. should not be in child care settings d. usually have to be institutionalized

test in average or above average range of intelligence

a shopping trip activity can help children learn to ______________________

practice working together as a group

the best way resolving a conflict is _____________

problem solving

it is important for children to develop the ability to read non verbal cues a. because they may want to be actors b. so they won't misinterpret a look or gesture c. so they can interpret drawings d. because they need to refine their own nonverbal cues

so they won't misinterpret a look or gesture

the first step in resolving a conflict is for all participants to agree to a. solve the problem b. not call each other names c. let the others person win d. write down the solution

solve the problem

true/false a technique that can be used to help a child resolve conflict is using "I" messages

true

true/false an activity using puppets can provide children with an outlet for feelings

true

true/false children can learn how to make friends through role-playing

true

true/false children can practice observational skills with he active called cultural scenes

true

true/false how children fell about themselves has a direct effect on their behavior

true

true/false it is very important to school-age children to make and keep friends

true

true/false children have fewer models for long term relationships than did children in the past

true

the activity best friends are helps children identify __________________

characteristics of friendships

__________________ rules are the things that children can control themselves

optional

self image has two components, _______________________ and the perception conveyed by others

our perception of ourselves

violence can be physical, ________________________ or _________________

verbal or emotional