CHD 224 chapter 7 study guide
"I am unhappy when you do that" is an example of ___________
"I" message/ conflict resolution
intrinsic rewards are things such as a. good grades b. a feeling of pride c. special privileges d. a gold star
a feeling of pride
children who lack social skills tend to exhibit _______________ behavior
aggressive/passive
non-negotiable rules are those that a. can be changes after discussing them b. children help draft c. children can negotiate d. are not open for discussion
are not open for discussion
positive reinforcers are based on a. piagetian theory b. freudian theory c. behaviorist theory d. vygotskys theory
behaviorist theory
caregivers should emphasize ___________ rather than competitiveness when children play games a. losing gracefully b. cooperation c. fairness d. playing by the rules
cooperation
when plying games with school-age children a good strategy is to emphasize ____________________ rather than _______________
cooperation competition
children are ___________ and they often fail to understand what they do affects others
egocentric
the last step in resolving conflicts is to a. ask the caregiver whether the solution will work b. agree not to fight again c. evaluate how the solution is working d. shake hands
evaluate how the solution is working
true/false according to the children's defense fund, homicide is no longer the leading cause of children's death
false
true/false one's self image does not change once it has been established in middle childhood
false
true/false it is not the caregivers responsibility to teach social skills
false
quiet or withdrawn children may a. fear rejection by other children b. be hiding their aggressive feeling c. come from a different ethnic group d. not speak the dominant language
fear rejection by other children
a logical consequence after a child deliberately spills paint while painting would be to a. give the child a 5 minute time out b. have the child clean up the spill c. ban the child from he art area d. call the child's parents
have the child clean up the spill
a conflict plan might include a description of the conflict, the child's usual response, and ____________________
how they might change their behavior
constant denial of feelings by adults makes children distrust their own _________________
inner senses
overly aggressive children act that way because they a. feel powerful b. may have experienced a lot of failure c. have learned they can get what they want d. are suffering from an emotional illness
may have experienced a lot of failure
_____________________ is one of the most powerful strategies adult can use for teaching children to be more cooperative
modeling
children with Asperger's syndrome a. test in the average or above average range of intelligence b. are hyperactive c. should not be in child care settings d. usually have to be institutionalized
test in average or above average range of intelligence
a shopping trip activity can help children learn to ______________________
practice working together as a group
the best way resolving a conflict is _____________
problem solving
it is important for children to develop the ability to read non verbal cues a. because they may want to be actors b. so they won't misinterpret a look or gesture c. so they can interpret drawings d. because they need to refine their own nonverbal cues
so they won't misinterpret a look or gesture
the first step in resolving a conflict is for all participants to agree to a. solve the problem b. not call each other names c. let the others person win d. write down the solution
solve the problem
true/false a technique that can be used to help a child resolve conflict is using "I" messages
true
true/false an activity using puppets can provide children with an outlet for feelings
true
true/false children can learn how to make friends through role-playing
true
true/false children can practice observational skills with he active called cultural scenes
true
true/false how children fell about themselves has a direct effect on their behavior
true
true/false it is very important to school-age children to make and keep friends
true
true/false children have fewer models for long term relationships than did children in the past
true
the activity best friends are helps children identify __________________
characteristics of friendships
__________________ rules are the things that children can control themselves
optional
self image has two components, _______________________ and the perception conveyed by others
our perception of ourselves
violence can be physical, ________________________ or _________________
verbal or emotional