Speech: Verbal/Non-Verbal Communication
Distractions
1. Environmental - fire, people, outfits, voices, bell, weather, etc. 2. Physical - migraine, soreness, hunger, tiredness 3. Mental - daydream (#1) (10-15 min) 2,000 per day
Effective communication
Speaker + listener understand each other completely; person to person communication
Communication model
1. Speaker/sender 2. Message/medium 3. Listener/receiver 4. Response/feedback 100% due to always occurring; never stops repeating itself
Discussion
3 or more people communicating; discussion group
Group communication
3 or more people communicating; group of friends, group of family members
Mass media communication
Communicating to large audience who may or may not be present; super bowl
Intrapersonal communication
Communication with oneself; talking to car, speaking reminders
Non-verbal communication
Communication without saying; texting, sign language
Debate
Formal, rule oriented form of argumentation; political debates
Theater
Imitating a character or a person; mocking parents, SNL
Non-verbal communication (cont.)
Objectics - appearance; clothes, hair, jewelry, body, accessories Kinesics - body language; facial expression (50% of knowing; unlimited), gestures (unlimited; #1 handsome), posture Paralanguage/vocalics - voice; pitch, rate, volume, quality, 'not what you say, but how you say it', auctioneer Proxemics - space + distance; intimate, personal, social, public, personal bubble (1 1/2 ft); (hug, kiss) Haptics - Touching; professional, social, friendship, intimate, sexual Environmental - Surroundings; structure, people's surroundings, classrooms, perception, additional criteria Olfactics - Smells; effects, evokes memories/emotions, scientific discoveries, scent and attraction, cultures Chronemics - Time; schedule, phrases, personality Oculesics - Eye; (de)intensification, neutralization, masking (direct/indirect eye contact, gaze direction, pupil dilation)
Verbal communication (cont.)
Question 1 - What are words? Symbols Question 2 - Where are meanings found? Society/culture Question 3 - Why do meanings change? Change in society/culture
Oral interpretation
Reading aloud literature; children's book
Types of Words
Slang - non-standard English; bling, etc. Obscenities - inappropriate; offends '1'; George Carlin (comedian), FCC (7) Cultural - Background; Food - music (#1), Said most by teenagers Regional - Geographical area; Midwest accent Technical - Specialized; career, sports (touchdown), hobbies
Oral communication
Talking; understandment of what a person is saying
Verbal communication
Talking; understandment of what a person is saying to you; 7% of all communication; distance between two - 12 ft. or more
Interpersonal communication
Two people communicating; two friends, one on one talk
