Funeral service counseling

Suppression

A conscious postponement of addressing anxieties and concerns defines resistance shame suppression regression

Suicide

A deliberate act of self destruction: Suicide Marriage Dating None of these

Matriarchal

A family that is governed by the mother is matriachal democratic patriarchal egalitarian

Adaptive funeral rite

A funeral rite specifically designed to meet the needs and wishes of the family: Humanistic funeral Adaptive funeral rite Immediate Disposition Traditional funeral rite

Folkway

A non-compulsive standard of behavior that is only socially enforced: ceremony folkway ritual rite

Cultural universal

A pattern of living and dying which can be identified in all societies is referred to as a custom cultural universal law ritual

A ritual filled event with deep symbolic meaning

A rite: A ritual filled event with deep symbolic meaning. None of these A ritual filled event with no deep symbolic meaning. A ceremony performed with various rituals.

Bereavement

A state, condition , or event produced when we lose someone or something of value best describes the term loss mourning bereavement grief

Cultures

A system of abstract patterns of and for both living and dying which are learned directly or indirectly defines folkways laws cultures mores

Masked grief

A type of grief reaction when the person experiences symptoms and behavior which causes them difficulty, but they do not see or recognize the fact that these are related to the loss chronic grief uncomplicated grief exaggerated grief masked grief

An extended family

A/an _________ family would include a son and his family. an extended family a modified family a patriarchal family a nuclear family

Positive regard

According to Carl Rogers, accepting the client or counselee as he or she is, and for what he or she is without imposing judgments or stipulations: shame respect positive regard trepidation

Respect

According to Wolfelt, the ability to communicate the belief that everyone possesses the capacity and right to choose alternatives and make decisions: Respect Regression Resistance Rapport

Grief

An emotion or set of emotions due to a loss that is involved in the work of mourning: guilt fear panic grief

Bereavement

An event producing acute deprivation and loss due to death of one in whom emotional capital has been invested is frustration mourning bereavement fear

Funeral

An organized, flexible, purposeful, group centered, time-limited response to death which reflects. reverence, dignity and respect: ritual funeral ceremony rite

Guilt

Blame directed toward one's self based on real or unreal condition is called mourning grief guilt bereavement

An external (outward) response to an emotion-observable

Crying is:

Fear

Defined as the basic emotion resulting from the sudden realization of some immediate danger to life and health. depression fear alarm sadness

it is hard to know all families you serve personally

For the funeral director, urbanization has meant greater contact with all members of the community it is hard to know all families you serve personally closer ties to your community that everyone in the community can know you better

Anticipatory grief

Grieving that occurs prior to the actual loss is called anticipatory grief mourning actual grief bereavement

Ordained clergy

Humanistic funerals are devoid of ordained clergy feelings flowers memorabilia of the deceased

Home

In an extended (joint) family, religion is taught at Sunday school Revivals Home Seminars

Goals

Objectives or adjustments to be achieved: options goals selection none of these

Religion

Sacred beliefs reflected in the daily conduct of an individual are part of demeanor philosophy culture religion

bureaucratization

Strict departmental standards with little or no variation is typical of mobility bureaucratization industrialization urbanization

A social function

The group aspect of a funeral rite makes the event a private experience a historical event a cultural event a social function

Homicide

The killing of one human being by another: suicide genocide infanticide homicide

Affect

The level of emotion displayed by a person in reaction to an event is called ___. fear effect sorrow affect

To face the reality of the loss

The purpose of the funeral rite is to prevent the recall of memories of the deceased to allow for denial of feelings to face the reality of the loss for the family to repress their grief

Psychology

The science of individual human behavior is called: physiology philosophy psychology religion

Sociology

The science of social group study; Culture Urbanization Sociology Psychology

Thanatology

The study of death is called thanatopsis thanatology physiology psychology

Bargaining

The third of Kubler-Ross' stages of anticipated grief is identified as depression acceptance bargaining denial

Client centered counseling

The type of counseling where the client is approached with an attitude of "unconditional positive regard" as promoted by Carl Rogers is called Grief therapy Psychoanalysis Client centered counseling Rational-emotive theory

Post-Need Counseling

Those appropriate and helpful acts of counseling that come after the funeral: Post-Need Counseling Pre-Need Counseling At-Need Counseling None of these

Hospice

Used to indicate an institution designed to treat patients with a life- limiting condition: motel none of these hotel hospice

Attack them directly

Usually the best way to meet our problems is to lie about them repress them withdraw attack them directly

Crisis

A highly emotional temporary state in which an individual's feelings of anxiety, grief, confusion or pain impair his or her ability to act: ceremony crisis astronomical event ritual

A nuclear family

A man, a woman and their unmarried children in one household is A modified extended family A nuclear family A joint/extended family A patriarchal family

displaced aggression

A mechanism by which anger is directed toward a person or object other than the one which originally precipitated the anger: fear shame guilt displaced aggression

Informational

Which type of counseling involves sharing a body of special information with a counselee? psychology situational informational psychotherapy

Tom, age 37, oldest son

Within a patriarchal joint/extended family, who would assume control after the death of Frank, the father, age 62? Tom, age 37, Frank's oldest son Jake, Frank's wife's brother - age 54 Steve, age 32, Frank's youngest son Agnes, Frank's wife, age 58

Mores

A must behavior for all members of society that is not enforceable by law but will be enforced by other members of society as with shunning? laws taboos mores rites

All of these

A non- directive method of counseling that stresses the inherent worth of the client and the natural capacity for growth and health (recognizes that the person has the ability to answer all of their own questions): Person- Centered Client- Centered Rogerian All of these

Delayed grief

A type of grief which is suppressed and or postponed is uncomplicated grief masked grief chronic grief delayed grief

Congruence

According to client- centered counseling, the necessary quality of a counselor being in touch with reality and other's perception of one-self is termed positive regard communication rapport congruence

judgemental attitude

All of the following are referred to as characteristics of the helping funeral director except judgemental attitude warmth and caring respect empathy

Funeral rite

Any funeral event. Vigil Funeral Mass Memorial service Funeral rite

Counseling

Assisting in the understanding of the circumstances or situations the individual is experiencing, and helping with the selection of alternatives to cope with changes is: counseling treatment management psychoanalysis

Illustrating

Describing or explaining detailed examples of the ways that funeral offerings such as visitation and public funeral have helped other families in similar situations is called: illustrating metalanguage negotiation setting goals

an increase in the day to day confrontation with death

Each of the following have affected the nuclear family EXCEPT the fact that death has become more abstract an increase in the day to day confrontation with death the isolation of the old in our society an extended life expectancy

Personality

Factors that complicate grief include: Relationship, Circumstantial, Social, Historical, and _______________. Personality Environmental Experiential Clinical

Yearning

Having an intense feeling of loss or lack of something deemed to be important and longing for that something or someone: shame yearning guilt fear

Furniture

Historically funeral directing was a second business, often the undertaker also sold ___. horses furniture medical equipment flowers

Affect

How you feel about something or someone and how you act toward it or them: fear effect sorrow affect

Urbanization

Increased concentrated population: Mobilization Industrialization Urbanization Bureaucratization

A body present

Memorial service are funeral rites without Religion Emotion Social relevance A body present

Urbanization

Of the following terms, which best describes movement from rural areas into the urban areas? Industrialization Bureaucratization Urbanization Mobility

Cultural universals

Patterns identifiable in nearly all cultures worldwide are called : Rites Rituals Cultural Universals Norms

Client centered counseling

Person-centered counseling is also referred to as directive counseling client-centered counseling psychiatry situational counseling

Funerals

Rites of funeralization with the body present are called ceremonies funerals memorial services folkways

Sympathy

Sincere feelings for the person who is trying to adjust to a serious loss or the death of a close friend or relative: ideation yearning empathy sympathy

Is a custom

Social behavior that is dictated by tradition are laws is a custom are mores are folkways

Is a custom

Social behavior that is dictated by tradition Is a custom Are laws Are mores Is a folkway

Is a custom

Social behavior that is dictated by tradition are laws is a custom are mores are folkways

Rules

Specified methods of procedure: Values Rules Rites Norms

euthanasia

The act of causing death painlessly so as to end pain and suffering for an individual is called

9 years and above

The age at which a child understand death as being both final and inevitable is 3 to five years of age 5 to 9 years 9 years and above birth to 3 years old

Shame

The assumption of blame directed toward one's self by others is called fear shame anger guilt

Anger

The basic emotion; may take the form of shame, blame or guilt depending onto whom the feeling is projected: anxiety anger alarm affect

Anger

The basic emotion; may take the form of shame, blame or guilt depending onto whom this emotion is projected: anxiety anger alarm affect

Cultural relativity

The concept that all cultures have something of value to add to the common good for all of society? social order social egocentricity cultural- ethnocentrism cultural relativity

Minimal

The economic impact of the death of the patriachal leader in an extended/joint family is never reconciled by the family members of no importance in funeral arrangements about the same as a nuclear family minimal

Lower than western European countries

The educational level of the American society is generally lower, because most people have GED's mostly illiterate the highest in the world lower than Western European countries

Committal service

The last portion of a funeral or memorial services; the rite of finality preceding cremation, earth burial, entombment or burial at sea: funeral rite committal service memorial rite none of these

Enculturation

The method by which social values are learned: Customs Taboos Classroom teaching Enculturation

mind and behavior

The modern definition of psychology is that it is the study of individual human: soul beliefs behavior and memory mind and behavior

Sociology

The science that deals with the organization of social groups and how they change or stay the same is called psychology anthropology biology sociology

Throwing a temper tantrum

Which of the following forms of behavior illustrates "regression" by an adult? throwing a temper tantrum blaming the other person "turning the other cheek" saying that he did not want the job anyway

unconditional positive regard

Which of the following self concept factors would NOT affect the ability of the funeral director to effectively communicate with his clientele? thoughts of superiority unconditional positive regard emotional distance from the client ethnic bias

Mobility

Which of the following terms best describes relocation or travel? urbanization anonymity mobilty industrialization

Carl rogers

Which of the following would argue that counseling is associated with good communication? Sigmund Freud Carl Rogers Elisabeth Kubler-Ross Edgar Jackson

Two parents and their biological or legally adopted children

Which of these constitutes a nuclear family? three generations living on the same farm two parents and their biological or legally adopted children two remarried parents and their children and step children single parent with his or her biological children