Relationships

When considering dating someone, it is essential to determine if he/she is a Christian.

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What three rules refer to things that should be done during intermission only?

Three things that should only be done during intermission include; talking, walking/leaving your seat and using distracting electronic devices.

If you do not win a competition you should remain quiet while the other team is being congratulated.

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How can you avoid feelings of jealousy toward a sibling?

You can avoid feelings of jealousy towards a sibling by realizing that you have your own assets. God made you as an individual with the right talents and abilities; He has a plan for you.

How did Nehemiah demonstrate that he had a heart for families?

Nehemiah demonstrated he had a heart for families by weeping, praying and fasting for them.

What does the top management look for when evaluations or reviews of worker's achievements are made?

Top management looks for a kind word and a tactful show of thoughtfulness.

List several qualifications of a good friend. Give a Bible verse supporting each quality.

- trustworthy (Proverbs 16:28) - loyal/involved (Proverbs 17:17) - challenges us (1 Thessalonians 5:11)

Think of the teacher or adult leader you most enjoyed, and make a list of the attributes this individual exemplified. What made him or her your favorite ?

- understanding - kind - helpful - thoughtful My favorite teacher was someone who was very understanding and made me feel comfortable. When I am learning and am in a comfortable enviornment it makes a big difference on how well I do. Being kind has a great impact too. I once had a teacher (in public school) who was very rude and made me feel dumb whenever I had a question. My grade ended up dropping and I no longer looked forward to attending that specific class.

At Social Events

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Boss and Co-Workers

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Choosing the Right Mate

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Dating

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Siblings

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Teachers

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The Family's Responsibility to the Church

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Give two Bible references that speak to the issue of sex and marriage.

1 Corinthians 6:18 "Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body." Mathew 5:28 "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."

Why do criticisms hurt so much?

Criticisms hurt so much because they expose a flaw. After being criticized you should ask yourself some questions before reacting : ​Is there any truth to this criticism? Is there anything I can do to rectify this situation? Am I right before the Lord in this matter? Is the Lord trying to tell me something? What can I learn from this?

Define education (use Webster's 1828 definition).

Education is a series of instruction as well as discipline which is used to enlighten understanding, correct temper, as well as form manners in youth that they will carry with them to their future.

Think about the talents God has given you. Where can you use these talents to minister within your church?

God has given me a love for children. I could use this to help minister to my church by volunteering to help out at Sunday School. We also have a nursery in our church; I could offer to help out in there as well.

How does God want each man and woman to enter marriage, so they can start their marriage without marks against it?

God wants man and woman to enter marriage as virgins so they can start their marriage without marks against it.

If you are late for the performance, where might you spend the first act of a play?

If you are late, you may end up spending the first act of a play either in the back or even out in the foyer.

Why is it important to build a relationship with your grandparents?

It is important to build a relationship with your grandparents for both their need to be needed and for your need to learn from them.

Why is it important to control your actions and conversation at a party?

It is important to control your actions and your conversation at a party because if you are the center of attention and are loud/overbearing you may come off as annoying to others. To add on, some conversations could be insulting to others; you should be sure that your conversations or jokes are not of ill nature.

Why is it important for you to understand the role of the teacher?

It is important to understand the role of the teacher because everyone is a teacher or a student in some way. Someone may be watching you and learning from both your words and your actions. To add on, being a student and understanding your teacher's viewpoints can help you be a better recipient of knowledge as well as a more cooperative student.

How can organizational skills reduce conflict with your parents?

Organizational skills can reduce conflict with your parents. Planning ahead is a great idea since everybody's schedules can be chaotic. A good way to help organize would be to keep a family calendar and talk about each person's schedule.

What rule did "Lucy" break?

Since Lucy was not on time, instead of climbing over someone to get to her seat; she should have stood in the back and waited until the usher escorted her or until intermission.

What room seems to be the hardest room to share with a sibling? How can you improve the situation?

The bathroom seems to be the hardest room to share with siblings. You can improve this situation by always cleaning up after yourself (leave the bathroom tidy). It is a good idea to set a schedule for bath times as well as clean up times.

What is the best way to let someone know that you want to break up with him?

The best way to let someone know that you want to break up with him is by letting him know that there is something you want to talk about. You should break up with him in person (face to face). You should not write a note, make a phone call or just dissapear.

By what means can the church minister to help the family improve its quality of life?

The church can minister to help a family improve their quality of life by not just telling them what to do; but by showing them how to do it. Churches can minister to families through Sunday school lessons - teaching Christian marriage and the home. Churches can also minister by having retreats and seminars on the home and the family. Regular messages on the home will improve the quality of family life in five ways: 1.) encourages a vital relationship with God 2.) strengthen the husband and wife's relationship 3.) build family strength 4.) equip parents to teach Christian values 5.) develop rational strengths

The key to borrowing from friends and family is to:

The key to borrowing from friends & family is to first ask their permission to do so. You should then treat the item you are borrowing the way you would want them to treat your items. You must return the item promptly in the same condition it was when you first took it. (Remember: if you break it you are responsible for fixing it or replacing it).

Looking at the pros and cons of going out, which con would you be most concerned about? Why?

The one con that I am most concerned about is you feel pressured to become too intimate. I say this because I think that it is important to save intimacy for marriage. Intimacy is supposed to be something in marriage, not done under pressure.

What is the proper way to handle a victory in competition?

The proper way to handle a victory in competition is to shake your opponents hand as well as give them a positive comment.

What is the role of the student?

The role of the student is to use their learning enviornment to expand their knowledge, skill as well as quality of life. Students should be attentive, cooperative, obedient and diligent in efforts to learn.

What does the teacher need to balance in a student/teacher relationship?

The teacher needs to balance ​a detached professionalism with personal friendship.

What two things can you do as a guest to help hostess/guest relations?

Two things you can do as a guest to help hostess/guest relations include being on time and leaving at the appropriate time.

What was "Wanda" guilty of at the movie?

Wanda was guilty of whispering/talking to her neighbors throughout the whole performance.

What is appropriate dress when you attend a stage performance at a concert hall?

When attending a stage performance at a concert hall it is most likely going to be semi-formal or formal. You should dress accordingly to this.

List two areas in family life where you can demonstrate cooperation.

You can demonstrate cooperation by balancing phone or computer time with other members of the family. Another area in family life you can demonstrate cooperation is with the TV. If you have been watching something you like to watch; offer up the remote to another family member when your show is over so that they have an opportunity to pick something they would like to watch.

How do you know if a corsage or boutonniere is right-side-up?

You can know a corsage or a boutonniere is right-side-up if the flowers are up (which is the way that they grow).

How can you overcome your nervousness at a party?

You can overcome your nervousness at a party by focusing on the needs of others at the party. For example, if you see someone standing alone you could go and introduce yourself and start a conversation.

What are some ways that you can show respect towards another person?

You can show respect towards another person by - 1.) speaking courteously to another person even if you do not agree with them. (& you will not gossip about them). 2.) considering their personal likes & dislikes; their moral standards, traditions, capabilities, limitations & their fears. 3.) giving them room to be different.

When is it appropriate to tattle?

You should tell when your sibling is doing something that is harmful, dangerous, immoral, or against the law. You should not tell just to get your sibling in trouble.

What principle should you use when criticizing others? What does this principle state?

You should use the "4 to 1 principle" - before criticizing others give them 4 compliments. You should also say it in a way which will encourage him/her and build them up; not tear them down.

Why might your parents seem to be uninterested or unreasonable at times?

Your parents might seem to be uninterested or unreasonable at times because they may be preoccupied with their own troubles, they may not have enough information about the situation, or they don't understand the situation enough to make a decision about it.

A person's values concerning moral purity is a personal matter and should not be considered when making the decision to date him/her.

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Adolescent friendships, no matter the gender, are characterized by trust.

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If you don't like your supervisor, you should go to the boss and complain.

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It is okay to call your boss by his first name if he calls you by your first name.

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The heart always gives us accurate directions to our feelings and can be trusted in making decisions.

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Because of the various living arrangements in today's homes, such as single-parent, working moms, etc., you may have to:

step up and take responsibility for yourself and help out running the household.

An effective way to begin and end a discussion when trying to settle differences is with prayer.

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If you have already had sex, God will forgive you if you apply 1 John 1:9.

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It is wise to make sure your supervisor/boss knows that you have accomplished the tasks he has given you.

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Once virginity is lost, it cannot be regained.

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One gift God shares with us is the ability to love others.

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One of the most important actions that can be taken is prayer for strength and wisdom.

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Sex is meant to be an expression of love .

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Sharing intimate, personal, or private information about your life with a co-worker could cost you a promotion or even your job.

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Teenage sex could lead to being married to someone you genuinely do not love.

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Teenage sex could lead to untimely parenthood.

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Teenage sex may leave you with feelings of guilt.

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The Bible tells us to heed the words of those who are older than us.

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The family bond should not be broken.

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The largest group in the work force pyramid is the general workforce.

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The results of teenage sex could change all your life goals and educational aspirations.

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Your dating standards may be unrealistic and should always be questioned when you are interested in someone.

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You need not applaud if the performance is not good.

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If you approach your problems correctly and communicate your wishes politely, the outcome of any talk can be settled to your complete satisfaction.

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Family ministries of the church should result in families and marriages that:

glorify God and minister to others.

The results of teenage sex may alienate you from family and friends.

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There are positive things you can do if you have time alone in the house each day after school.

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Sexually transmitted diseases such as AIDS are important to know about when considering dating.

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Being allowed to drive the family car is a (n) __________.

privilege

The relationship between and teacher and a student should be one of mutual_________.

respect

A baby is more likely to cry if she or he hears another baby cry.

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A person's previous marital status is important to know when considering dating.

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A person's sexual orientation is important to know when considering dating.

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The watchwords for successful grandparenting are __________.

- patience - support - love - care

The respect someone shows toward his parents has little to do with how he will respond to you.

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There's no such thing as personal possessions in a family.

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Bosses also need encouragement.

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The rule for entering a room with a closed door is:

you must knock and wait for permission to enter when a door is closed.

At Church

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When talking out problems with others, begin comments with ___ rather than _____.

I you

Jesus was the Master Teacher.

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List five ways the quality of family life will be improved through the church's ministry.

​Regular messages on the home will improve the quality of family life in five ways: 1.) encourages a vital relationship with God 2.) strengthen the husband and wife's relationship 3.) build family strength 4.) equip parents to teach Christian values 5.) develop rational strengths

At Home

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_______________ are vital to family harmony.

communication frankness

At School and Work

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Work pyramid :

the boss supervisors general workforce

The employee's role is to show __________.

- an aptitude to please - a readiness to respond - a willingness to accomodate

List three roles that the teacher serves.

1.) An evaluator 2.) A counselor 3.) An encourager/believer

Steps to take in settling differences:

1.) prayer 2.) find out how much each person involved feels 3.) lay out the facts 4.) work on a solution 5.) ask for forgiveness when necessary 6.) prayer

What are three qualities the believer should expect a church to provide for him and his family?

1.) teaches proper doctrine 2.) ministers to the family 3.) evangelizes in the community

What are three areas of your life that you are responsible to share with the church?

1.) your tithe 2.) your talents 3.) your time

You are a participating athlete. How must you remember to act, even in the heat of competition?

As a participating athlete you should act as a good sport, even in the heat of competition. It is important to play enthusiastically, be a team player, play fair, be encouraging to others, and have fun.

You are a spectator at a sports event. How should you behave?

As a spectator at a sports event, you should be kind, courteous and encouraging towards others.

Define business.

A business is a group of individuals who have to work together as a team in a congenial to keep an operation running.

Distinguish between peers and friends.

A peer is someone who is in equal rank with you, age and abilities or qualifications - but you don't know this person very well. A friend is someone who you know and that you have an attachment to.

Adolescent girls and boys generally play with children of their same gender.

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