Conversation Starters for Guys with Girls

Get a female opinion

24."I need a girl's opinion about something I was just discussing with a friend who broke up with his girlfriend. He made out with another woman straight after his relationship break up. Is he a jerk?"

Tease cheesy pick-up lines.

25."I play the field, and it looks like I just hit a home run with you." "You're like a dictionary, you add meaning to my life!" "Do you have a sunburn, or are you always this hot?". Make sure you say the pick-up line in a joking manner.

Ask a controversial question

26."Who lies more: men or women?" "Is it wrong to break up with a text message?" Ask a question to a group of women then watch their eyes open wide and hear the chatter break out.

Women love to share their opinion on relationships

27."I want a woman's perspective on this. I was just talking to a friend who broke up. His girlfriend keeps calling. Why does she do it?" Ask a question about someone's relationship.

Straight to the point

28."You caught my attention because you're cute so I had to come talk to you."

Lightly tease the woman about something she'll giggle over

29."Nice boots. Do you have your horse parked outside?" "Nice shoes. They look comfortable." "Nice top. My grandma has one." Say it playfully. Be prepared for banter otherwise you could be eaten alive by a witty woman.

pretend to be an employee

30."Can I help you?" Ask this in a shop.

This opener is more suited to entertainment venues

31."Hmm, are you friendly?" Say it with a suspicious and playful look. Most women will not say no. "Good, I'll talk to you." If she does say no, you can overlook it, use it as banter material, or take it as a warning sign to leave the grump alone. This

Greet her with a smile, and ask how she's doing

Gentlemen are hard to come by these days, and you can instantly make a good impression just by being a gentleman. Avoid slang like "Sup girl?" She's not one of your pals that you just ran into on the street, even if you have talked to her before. Be polite, and try something like "Hello, how're you doing?" She's much more likely to be interested that way.

Compliment her

Girls love to be complimented, and it can really make a difference if you act like a gentleman when you compliment her. Just as before, avoid the use of slang. Also, be respectful. It's a rare girl that will accept "Nice booty" as an acceptable compliment on a first meeting. Instead, try saying, "I like your eyes." It shows that you're interested in something more than her butt or her breasts.

Ask about the food or drink she has

If you're at a coffee shop, cafe, or a party you might want to comment on the food or drink she has in her hands. It's a great way to lead into asking her about her favorite food or drink, which you can file away later for a date in the possible future. Remember to introduce yourself, or you might just end up being known as "the food guy."